Just want to be candid about having a preference. It’s ok to have a preference. Just communicate. But it’s not ok when you initiate a chat, show a lot of interest and then when you exchange information, they judge on your race / ethnicity and if it’s not white or their preferred race, the other person leaves the chat. Especially when all you’re doing is chatting. It’s racist and takes a toll on people who are not white. Please be considerate during these tough times. Thanks!

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Just put your ethnicity out there to begin with. It’ll detract those individuals. What apps are you talking about?

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