Ladies, does it hurt you when your man looks at other women? Context- when I was young it used to hurt me more than it does now. My man doesn’t really stare at women but he is one of those people who look at other people with curiosity but I have been hurt in previous relationships so it triggers my insecurities some times

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Nope. What's he gonna do? Leave me? If he made the calculated risk of leaving me over a woman he looked at, then the relationship probably had other problems anyways. He can look all he wants but if he takes any action, that might be problematic.

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I just danced with a random man at the club and afterwards got the urge to ask him if he’s married. Turns out he was and I felt bad for dancing that close to him. If I was his wife I wouldn’t be happy with him looking at let alone dancing with other women. Sure, I guess many men do it but a man who loves and respects you won’t do it

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I’m married and was at a bachelor party a few weeks ago. We were at a bar with a big dance floor and I ended up dancing with a girl for a few minutes. No grinding or anything serious. Then her drunk friend comes over and goes “NO!!! YOU’RE NOT HOT ENOUGH!!” and I left.

When I got home I told my wife and she thought it was hilarious. Point is, not all couples are the same. Respect your partner and don’t do anything you wouldn’t be comfortable doing with them there.

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Everyone likes to admire beauty in all facets: cars, art, people, etc., and that’s perfectly fine and no offense should be taken.

It’s not okay when admiration turns to desire/lust. Lots of nice cars out there I admire, but I wouldn’t sell my life away for them. Same goes for my fiancée, lots of beautiful women out there, but no chance I’m leaving her for them.

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Of course not! I like look at other women too haha

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Right! He'll probably have to call me out lol

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No problem at all. I look at other men all of the time. People are attractive. You don’t stop noticing just because you are in a relationship.
My partner and I both salsa dance and dance with other people. He picked me and I picked him and we have a strong bond, so I’m not worried that a glance or a dance with change that.

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Thanks! My mindset has also changed as I have matured. I am more secure now. Love all the confident positive comments

No, you can admire other humans.

Not really I look too 👀

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