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Ladies have you ever fallen for a guy over text? This guy is so hot and cold with me and we’ve never met - but have such a great time texting. It’s so confusing. He lives 4.5 hours away from me and works 6 days a week (sometimes 7). We were supposed to meet some time back and then his mom got sick and then I got covid and then he got this job... and we never met again. What do I do ? He rarely ever initiates conversations these days, but when I do message him he’s on a roll.

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He’s not that much into you if he doesn’t initiate conversations anymore. I’d move on!

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I'm going through something similar but we talk over the phone vs. texting and honestly it makes me so happy. I didn't know having a conversation, even just random stuff could make you feel this way.

I know right.. Cant explain it. Are you planning to meet him soon?

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