Ladies, how did you know your guy was someone you wanted to marry? Was there a special moment that made you decide? (and where are you guys now?)

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- he was (is) thoughtful, gentle, loving, dedicated, loyal, stable, similar outlooks on life and what it most important, no intense or constant fights or bickering, supportive!
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- still crazy for each other, so happy and love building our life together (7 years)

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Still crazy for each other after 7 years? That's a dream 😍 I'm so happy for you!

For me it was when I realized that I was planning/picturing the future by always taking him into account. Let this be traveling, visiting families, job location, career, investments, etc. This was/is mutual, he was/is doing the same. I also realized that we were already treating each other like we are family (caring, protective, supportive no matter what).

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That sounds very secure and steady! It's interesting that you noticed your behavior as a reflection of your thoughts!

For me, it was when I realized I wanted him around all the time and never felt like I needed a break. I had never been comfortable completely sharing my space. But when I was comfortable with him always being there, I knew I didn’t want him to leave. We’ve been married now for about 10 months and going well. Quarantine hasn’t felt bad at all. If anything it just reconfirmed that he’s the right one for me.

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This is really sweet, and my sister thinks the same way you do! Congratulations!

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