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Wait till baby is sleep and then have sex in another room in the house.
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My first definitely wasn’t far away when my second was conceived - they are 2 under 2 so she was probably napping or something 😂🙈
Mentor
It definitely takes some work. Lube is your friend - hormones are crazy during pp and bf and I was never sure what I’d get going on downstairs. Random tips and things to remember.
- your baby can’t see you, they can only see a few feet in front of their face, and even if they could they have no context/don’t care.
- if you’re struggling to get in the mood, read some erotic stories/audio or whatever your “porn” of choice is prior to initiating
- talk to your partner if you haven’t already and be open and honest about what you both need, what’s been going on, and what your expectations are for sex going forward
- schedule it if you have to - it’s easier sometimes to set aside a time “ok, Saturday night is sexy night.” You can then look forward to it, nap, and drop hints throughout the week/day (like a “can’t wait for Saturday night” text)
Sex life changes after kids.
For us, we only have sex when the our kid go to sleepovers, etc. even though our daughter is now 10 and sleeps outside of our room, in her own bedroom. I still think it’s too uncomfortable to do with her across the hall.
Once in awhile we’ll slip up and just go for it, but usually its about twice a month when we have the house to ourselves.
Subject Expert
If you’re both working from home, lunchtime!
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This is how I got pregnant in the first place!
Biggest advice is to communicate openly with your hubby about both of your needs and come up with creative ways together :) personally I don’t feel comfortable with my husband wanking to porn and I don’t like using my vibrator in secret so we came up with creative ways (wanked together, oral instead of penetration) and just continued to make it a priority and an open conversation after the baby was born. Typically while the baby is asleep, we’ll take the monitor and go to another room - any room lol! Our sex life has changed in that it takes a bit more effort now but luckily it doesn’t have to decline! Orgasms for all! 🥳
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1) schedule it
2) get baby sleeping in crib (even if just for naps or the first portion of the night)
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Oh also I would go for morning or afternoon. If you wait until bedtime it’s unlikely to happen. Too tired.
Thanks ladies!! I think for us it’s also that a newborn can be tiring to take care of and any free time available is spent in lounging or sleeping. This is something we need to work on.