Ladies, I am 6 weeks post partum and on maternity leave. I unexpectedly have an interview for an ideal in-house role next week, and nothing fits (not even my shoes)! I feel like I need to wear a suit or a really nice work dress with a blazer, and heels. Where can I find these things quickly? Should I order a bunch online and try at home? I feel so uncomfortable in my skin, I’m still walking around with 30 pounds of baby weight

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I would suggest RTR! They have awesome clothes for maternity. If you need a discount code message me!

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Yes I have a membership but unfortunately don’t have any spots available, and honestly didn’t have a huge amount of success with their maternity work clothes

If you need something that quick, Amazon Carrie’s luxury brand clothes. Order a shit ton, wear something once, ship it all back. Good luck! 🙂

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You’re welcome! Autocorrect is an a$$ sometimes but I’m glad my point came across.

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If you can I would recommend going to a store in person - something like banana republic. Your body is a very different shape than it was pre baby, so it’s not just a matter of sizing up - you’ll likely need to try a variety of styles and sizes to find what fits you properly. A store like banana will have a lot of options without breaking the bank. Ordering a bunch of stuff online to try will likely be disheartening because most will not fit you (in my experience)

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The truest of all statements.

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In this post-covid world, I’m not sure you need a suit for the interview, but that could depend on company and geographic area.

I recommend looking at J Crew - that’s where I’m getting all my work clothes these days! Any chance you live near a store? The resume dress is super comfortable and flattering. I also love the going out blazer and high rise Cameron pants. I gained some weight during the pandemic, and still all of these items make me feel and look amazing.

Good luck with the interview!!

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Thanks! Will need to make a run to the mall

Order up a size on a black dress on MM Lafluer and throw a cute jacket over the top.

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Not ideal but Amazon carries some designer stuff and you get two day shipping with free returns. Good luck!!!

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Thank you! It always appears as a suggested ad, might as well try it

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Agree with using Amazon. They carry a lot of brand-name stuff. It’s not just the no-name cheap stuff.

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I feel beaten down by the online shopping trial and error! Good idea

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