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Ladies, I need a gift idea for my good friend. She’s a single mom who had her baby right as the pandemic began and is an essential worker. I wish I could’ve spent more time with her and her baby (now one year old) but obviously haven’t been able to due to covid. Her 40th is coming up and I was hoping to find something special for her. Any ideas?

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Pay for a babysitter and take her out for dinner/drinks for her 40th

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If she / you aren’t comfortable with seeing each other in person, you can always do uber gc / delivery gc with a nice personal gift too so it’s like dinner and maybe zoom for a drink and dinner / catch up

As a mom with a toddler at home, I’d say anything to help her relax / get an hour or two to herself or make her life easier

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