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Go to therapy. Learn about your attachment style, about your emotional history, where this was built from. Then rebuild it. It takes time but it’s worth it.
Oh trust me, I already do! Anxious attachment style, always feel like I’m not good enough. I’m sure I’m not alone in this one, seems common with high achieving women.
You and about 86% of the female population.
Honey if I knew that, I’d be the richest woman in the world. 😂
You don’t feel guilty about hurting a douchebag. You can’t get hurt with a douchebag because you already put the wall up. You expect bad behavior.
Tell yourself; You are worthy of love. You deserve happiness, joy and a relationship built on trust. Manifest self love by buying yourself a beautiful piece of rose quartz (crystal) and say your intentions to it. Ask for it to repel douchebags and open your heart to the vulnerability of true supportive love.
Wow A1. where were you all my life!!!
I love this thread. Glad it’s not just me. After my last bf (the only person I’ve given the time of day to in about 10 years) broke up w me, EVERYONE said, “You didn’t see he was a sociopath minus the violence?” I just can’t with myself. The only men I open up to are ones who have no emotions. Wtf.
I found my perfect man who isnt too overtly affectionate but shows me he cares about me with his actions (grocery shopping or surprise dinner) and still challenges me/gets competitive with me in a fun way. Now Ive been craving his physical affection haha...
It could also stem from the fact that you want someone to treat you with tenderness or look at you lovingly.. because it’s *you*, not just because they think that’s a “move”, if that makes sense? It’s about a genuine connection. If it feels contrived, I’d be repelled. I wouldn’t say I love douchebags, but I do want to know he’s not behaving this way instantly with every girl he meets, it should take time/work to have that genuine connection. Not sure that’s what you’re dealing with here, but could relate!
Yes last week I was feeling guilty for finding Joe attractive from YOU, this week I’m getting hot over the new Dracula. I need help.