Ladies, I’ve been talking to a guy who was at my company and left in March. We’ve become closer since he left and text and call each other regularly and will be meeting up next week. He hasn’t expressed romantic interest but he reaches out daily and sometimes we talk for hours on FaceTime. I want to know if he likes me or considers being involved romantically AT ALL or if it’s entirely platonic. Does anyone had any advice on how I could figure that out? I don’t want to open up about my feels yet

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Get tipsy and flirty when you meet up... easiest way to tell.

But ultimately if a guy is spending that much time talking to you, he has some sort of feelings for you.

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I was in this exact same scenario — I had two margaritas before we met up, flirted, and 7 months later we were engaged. So can’t be too bad of advice...

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He’s probably interested but cmon... we’re not in high school... communicate directly and just ask...

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Are you super young? I don’t think it’s massively weird even if it’s virtual. At the very least you don’t waste so much mental energy on it

Hey girl my names Emma! It really sounds like he must have some feelings for you!! Guys don’t pay attention if they don’t care!!

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Just ask him what his intentions are and tell him what you want. Don’t do the tipsy thing, that’s a bit immature in my opinion

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There is literally no one besides my mom that “reaches out daily” to me or that I communicate with every day (unless you’re counting sending memes as reaching out—that happens much more frequently but I don’t really count it as a convo). I text my 2 or 3 best friends maybe 3-5x per week and have hour+ FaceTimes with them maybe 1x per month or every 2 weeks. The only time I’m ever talking to someone every single day via phone/text/FaceTime/in-person is when I have a SO. My take? He is into you.

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He’s interested.

Agreed. He’s interested. Feel it out when you meet up.

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