Ladies, my boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months now. For some time now, I haven’t been in the mood to have sex to or to be intimate at all with him. We are even going for therapy but I don’t know what to do. Is the only solution here to break up ? FYI- we are both pretty young right now

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See your PCP and get bloodwork done- your hormones could be out of whack or something… sometimes nutritional deficiencies cause this

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Thanks yeah I should start with that

You are going for therapy after a few months? I think this is just not your guy. If you aren’t into him now…then it only gets worse from here.

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All my friends are telling me that but I am still confused on why this is happening

Hmm.. this is quite normal if you are going through some personal challenges (career, $$ or some other stress). It could also relate to some hormonal imbalances. I would recommend speak to your doctor and get yourself checked. I hope it is just temporary and it passes.

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Thanks I thought of the same!

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