Ladies on here, do you define/limit yourself or your preferences as femme or butch/masc? I don’t really personally but I feel like it’s so common in the dating scene

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I love an athletic, soft butch. Extra points for tattoos and big top energy.

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No tattoos but 2 of 3 isn’t bad, right? I have scars from injuries and surgeries.

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Super femme personally and I tend to prefer masc of center women

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Not really identify as anything but mainly because I’m not femme or butch. Somewhere in the middle. Have also dated with both. I guess I don’t limit myself. I like to keep it open.

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Definitely femme

I’m femme and I go for femme ( but a little less femme than me)

I like to date somewhere in the middle but definitely don’t limit myself

I think it depends. I feel like the dynamic used to be much more butch and femme, no matter what your preference. Now it seems there are and increasing number of boxes to put oneself in. People ask me all the time when I started transitioning or if I’m non binary. I’m masc of center, salty gen x butch. We fought hard for marriage equality and so there could be like 13 different pride flags now. You’re welcome.

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