Ladies that do onlyfans or sugar baby work- I’m looking to understand the motivation behind sexually monetizing yourselves when you already have a solid career path/pay (for the majority of you on this app). I’m seeing an increase in posts relating to onlyfans and can’t fully comprehend the incentive but want to remain open on the why’s.

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Because we like the type of work. It’s entertaining and easy (at least as a side) and pays well.

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Hey 👋🏼 I personally don’t do either, but have friends who do. I truly believe that women should be fully empowered to do what they want with their bodies so long as they are happy and comfortable with that choice. Women have been sexualised and reduced to sexual objects for centuries, so if women are now taking advantage of that and empowering themselves to actually gain a financial benefit - I think that’s fantastic. It’s not something I would ever do as I am in a committed loving relationship and I’m a very private person, but I’m happy for my friends who do. So long as they’re safe and happy. For many women it’s extra cash, if you’re body confident it’s a great way to monetise that, it’s no different to providing another service such as gardening or consulting. If someone is willing to pay and they’re willing to offer - it’s a transaction like any other.

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Just FYI the debate over whether prostitution/related activities are compatible with feminism is an old one :)

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I’m curious.... for those that have done it, do you guys show your face? How long have you been doing it? And how much are we talking? Seriously debating on joining the wagon.

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Ya what’s the money like?. Curious too

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There’s nothing wrong in choosing sex work, it isn’t a step backward. Feminism is about choice.

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I would totally do it if I wasn’t so unbelievably self-conscious of my body. Hats off to each and every person who feels confident to do it. It’s all about choice and respecting others decisions IMO ✌️

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I'm a sugar baby. I do it because I'm single af anyway and sugar daddies are usually more interesting than guys my age on the vanilla apps. My plan is to keep doing it until I either lose interest or find a real LTR with someone close to my age.

To be honest, ego does come into it. I enjoy the feeling of getting successful, high-status men to open up to me emotionally. A lot of times that's really what they're looking for and the sex is just the icing. Although I have to say, Cialis is a hell of a drug ;) The sex can be pretty freaking great.

Happy to talk more about it or answer any questions.

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What’s your location and how do you get sugar daddies?? Like good ones you know

What’s Onlyfans?

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Thanks xD

It’s honestly fun

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It's not your decision to judge nor to understand peoples' motivations. I have a few friends who participate in the platform and haven't asked them "why" they choose to as it is none of my business.

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Absolutely agree- I respect humans and people’s choices as they are, I’m just at a fork when it comes to viewing sex work as feminist empowerment. I’ve read both sides of those arguments but wanted to get more insights from this specific community.

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If sex workers truly enjoy what they do, then no further discussion needed. If however they don’t enjoy it and sex work is a means to ease their financial burden, a discussion is needed. This is more of a “what can we better do as a society so no one has to default to sex work to make ends meet”. For example - We are supposedly the richest country on earth, yet people are in debt for majority of their life to pay off medical bills or education loans. We need more women in office, we need to carefully vote and influence policies.

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Well, it’s fair to assume that everyone here has good financial standing. Sometimes life happens. Medical expenses, student debt, life debt in general. Sex work can an avenue to diversify your sources of income.

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What if someone wants an earlier retirement. Is that greed?

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I agree with being free and empowered. However I will caveat that It’s all fun and games until your project team/leadership or the client subscribes. Or, more likely, another woman in your practice subscribes and takes pictures of it and emails it to someone. 😩 just be safe. Keep identifying features out of posts.

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My friend is a physical therapist and sold underwear during college and was able to pay her loans off ($120k from 4 years undergrad and 3 years of a doctoral program) within 6 months of graduating. She makes good money now but not having loans has put her in an infinitely better position than most people our age

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I’m just chiming in with a reason as to why someone in a high paying job would consider it

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I don’t think there’s anything wrong with doing OnlyFans. What’s wrong and frankly hypocritical is berating men for looking when women are showing. Comments such as “creepy men” seem to be pervasive in this community. Well, you can’t fault men for taking what you are offering. The way I see it, men are not paying to be decent.

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OP – What I’m failing to understand here where you equate OF and similar, consensual sex work, with trafficking. Would you mind digging in to that a little more?

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girl's gonna do what girl wants to do 🙌🙌🙌 I'm not in it, but rock on to everyone who does it because they want to!

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Everyone has different circumstances. Not everyone wants to be controlled by Consulting firms. If these opportunities work for them then more power to them.

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Omg those women and men put their faces on there

Okay, where would you draw a line for easy cash.. shouldn’t women embrace having values in life.. Aren’t we the same women supporting ethical and sustainable fashion?

Yawn. It wasn’t an analogy. It was just you imposing your “principles” on everyone else.

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