Ladies!!! The nicest guy slide into my FB DMs and we exchanged messages for like over an hour. Then, all of the sudden he was like “nice chatting with you” and left the chat? What the heck?!?! 😂💔

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Wait what?! That’s weird.

Trust me. It ain’t you. I believe men should either ask for the number or if you give it, they should reach out.

If he can’t even be decisive or brave enough to do that, you don’t want him.

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What the heck did I do wrong? 😭

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