Ladies who’ve had more experience.. I’m about to be a first time mom (very excited) but my timing is slightly off. I might have to leave my job due to certain visa issues so might not be around till my “delivery”. I already was on a leave due to family issues (dad wasn’t well, mom got C19) so had to be there for support. I’m just feeling a little disheartened at the thought of having to leave this job I worked so hard for. Is it easier to get back into the workforce once you have a baby?

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Would you be eligible for benefits on your current visa situation? Dont know much about visa stuff, but know that the kpmg maternity leave kicks in 4 weeks before your due date... that may buy you some time if your firm has something like that?

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Regardless of the leave kicking in, I cannot legally work beyond a certain date if the visa is not valid. I’m eligible for benefits under the visa, just unfortunate that it’s ending and my due date coincide lol

Why would you have to leave before you deliver?

No I’m not. I have a few friends who are though but they had different situations.

Look for jobs at Dell, they expedite green cards.

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