Last October I ended a year long, long distance relationship because of the logistics of distance. I have spent the last 9 months (trying to) dating other guys in nyc and it sucks because I know what it COULD feel like. Recently saw my ex again and I’ve been bursting with joy ever since. Is the pursuit of ‘love’ worth changing my life and relocating for?

Do you go see your parents when they are getting surgery?
I've never been afraid of surgery before and my dad's had a bunch (from military). He lives a few states away but I usually get to see him quite often. He's only in his 40s and my mom is with him. The surgery he's about to have is considered high risk. I'm not worried or anything, but it's it customary to go see them when they're having a major surgery? He'll be in-patient for at least a week. Sounds I go after and help my mom? WWYD?

I have a student who is a strong writer and wants to be a blogger. How can I support her in this?

Playing golf with a newborn - Just had our first and she is 6 weeks now. I’ve been getting over to range on Saturday morning for an hour or two but hoping to play some rounds now that weather is turning. Question — How do you guys handle getting golf in with baby responsibility? Any tips?

It's one thing to realize that you will be losing credit for FAR. It's another thing when you wife gets mad at you for losing it even though a lot of sh*t has went down over the last 18 months.

FML

How you do you get over trust issues from a previous ex and trust your current SO? My ex cheated on my for months and I caught her by going through her phone and I find myself fighting that urge to go through my current SO’s phone even though I have no reason to.

Binge watched Looking over the weekend and my heart is broken because of the ending. I hate unhappy endings and they make me depressed for days.

Brag: I'm 12 years in (Big 4), had over 80 clients, lived oversears for 2 years, taken free vacations worth $200k+, and have harmony (90%+ of time) with my wife and kids. This is a phenomenal career.

Someone explain to me what happened on the bachelor. Stopped watching but keep seeing confusing storylines of what happened. Madi said no, then he proposed to Hanna, then Hannah broke up with him?

I can’t live with my spouse anymore and I think the feeling is mutual. We have kids (<10yrs) and I would hate to not be able to see them everyday. I’m afraid of the negative impact on the kids of this separation/divorce. Long term I don’t know what the solution is. Any advice would be appreciated. I feel like the biggest failure in the world.

First-gen grad students, does your family put pressure on you to succeed? It feels like our relationship is them just bugging me about my work. I’d love some advice, I miss my fam.

I’m 27 and think I’m starting to resent my girlfriend that I’ve been dating since I was 18

I love my boyfriend more than anything in the world. He truly is a loving, amazing, caring, and compatible (with me) human being. I think of and bring up future problems that may arise (ex: his family being too conservative and controlling, money awkwardness, handling kids with two high powered careers, etc.). Am I being responsible/forward-looking or am I just ruining a really good thing?

How do y’all manage your loneliness?

Question - Trying to see what end of spectrum I am in based on my age and profession(consultant) .

1. Years of Marriage and age
2. Number of times you make out with your significant other per week
3. Did Covid increase or decrease your weekly frequency

In a LT relationship that checks all the boxes, and my SO makes an obvious effort to make sure I feel appreciated. Problem is every time I try to do something special for them, I'm met with unenthusiastic comments or "you didn't have to do that". They don't make much effort to join my family events, and when there was a stressful event in their family they asked me to stay home and watch the pet while they went to visit. I was the only SO not there, and while they made it clear i wasn't at fault

For anyone in this bowl. How crucial is it for you to have a formal dining room separated from the kitchen? My son and daughter-in-law are buying a house for their future family and I'm trying to convince them a formal dining room looks better and makes things less chaotic in the kitchen, especially with kids. Am I out of touch? Or is it still important?

As a straight male, the world would be safer if no men existed. Men commit most of the problems and crimes this world has. I was having this discussion with my girlfriend and I didn’t realize how bad the male gender is.

I graduated last year but my friends from my hometown (we’re all back here again) are very wealthy and are on gap years/ gap lifes, and I have fomo bc I have to work and can’t stay out every night or drop everything and go to Mexico with a days notice, does anyone have tips for getting over this jealousy?

Anyone knows how to initiate divorce proceedings for an Indian marriage here in US?

Anyone else starting to resent how lax some people are taking social distancing? I’m in NJ and still going hard (for the most part)...are you jealous of people seeing friends? I am... are we fighting

Got ADA for $28k when it was $1.30. It’s just dipping down close to $1.. 😭😭😭

Hi All,

Just wanted to check what's the average salary for a GCB 5 Assistant Vice President - Business Consulting in HSBC Bangalore?
Just got the offer letter from the company and want to make sure I'm not being short changed!

Thanks!!

What are the biggests costs involved in starting a veterinary office?

I’m currently looking for an HR Project Manager or HRBP role. But I’m having such a hard time finding a position. I have about 9 years of experience. I even hired a company to work on my resume and cover letter. What am I doing wrong?

Hi Fishes.

Need a referral for the Data Analyst position.
Total exp: 4 years
THANK YOU in advance.
Any help is appreciated.

Im a new grad NICU Nurse been with my hospital for 1 year but ready to leave.!how can I make my self more attractive to other hospitals in my area.

Do you invest in commodities?

Hi! Got 60k in VFIAX and 30k in VTSAX brokerage. Where should I invest my 6k for my Roth IRA?

The amount of interest I’m gonna pay over the life of my home mortgage is disgusting.

About to start egg retrieval process next month. Is there anything I should do to prep my body?

what type of questions would be asked for a risk analyst role at a tech company?

I am quite early in my career and currently working on my masters in data science. Any tips on what kind of projects I should include on my resume and if I should include them?

Hello Fishes,

Can someone guide me if GOC is a good organization to join for Creative Excellence role? I have 4+ years of experience in Copywriting, campaign management, and Ops management, Content Marketing.

Current CTC - 5.84
GOC is offering - 7.1 LPA base+ 47k Reiteral + 71k Variable

Google Operations Center

Hi all, I am looking for Managerial and senior managerial positions in Operations Excellence in Toronto please help to refer me if there is an similar opportunity in your organization.

2nd round meta interview for a principal / partner role, non technical. Any tips on how to prep different from any other interviews?

What’s the average salary for an AE in NYC at a large agency? Current salary is 58K. Want to make sure I know how to approach my upcoming review. Thanks!

Anyone have insight into salary at Charles River Associates? Associate level, thanks in advance!

can i be hired as a valuation senior 1 with four years of assurance experience and one year of bval experience? after 4 years in consulting assurance i left for bval and worried they won’t promo me to senior after 1 year exp.

Was there any affect on your project due to Melbourne shutdown..........I see another potential lay-offs wave coming for Deloitte😬

Wen mass layoffs? Cold winter coming?

Anyone in Chicago?

Celebrate and enjoy Pride Month, but remember: “No pride for some of us without liberation for all of us.” - Marsha P. Johnson ✊

Any Iranian 🐟 here? I'm about to move to Iran for 12 months and was wondering about life in Tehran and what to expect. Thanks!

I’m having a really hard time dating—would appreciate advice on how to find someone who makes me happy. Contemplating moving but am not sure if that is going to change things for me. Been in DC (cont)

I’m into dudes who do karate 🥋, is this weird?

Anyone in Miami

Binge watched Looking over the weekend and my heart is broken because of the ending. I hate unhappy endings and they make me depressed for days.

Hi nyc boys 😏

Okay newly single and struggling to meet women. I've tried tinder but it never goes anywhere. Lesbian 🐠 any advice?

Hi, all. I'd love some advice from professional 🐠. I found out my date, who I've dated for 1.5 years with, is addicted to seeking new guys and random hookups on gay apps, almost 24/7. He said that love and sex are different for him. Can I expect him to stop the addiction and love me monogamously?

Does Donald Trump have WAP

What’re you NYC 🌈🐠 up to this weekend

Anyone in Nassau / Paradise island?

I met someone in the new city I moved to but they work for Fox News. They are a good person but I can’t get over their employer and they said I was immature for that. Are all companies under the wrath of capitalism so I should overlook that? Or has Fox brought too much hate to the gay community to even consider a relationship while he works for them. Thoughts?

Anyone in ATL over the December holiday?

Happy Father’s Day daddy

Any fun topics for a LGBT panel / happy hour event?

My bf is not expressive in saying I love you. I am fine with it most of the time but I just miss hearing it from him. Also, he still keeps calling me friend between us, but as bf with other people. He’s showing love in other ways like gifts, quality time and good s*x. I’ll meet his family this 4th of July! After typing this, I dont know why I am complaining. Sorry.