Learned today a female peer is angry when I am included on emails, invited to meetings, etc. A few others on the project have told me to “look out” and “she’s out to get you.” Help and advice please.

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why are people so problematic?

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I would go to her. “It has been brought to my attention....”. But in a very open and friendly way.

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Don't talk to her. But don't ignore. Just steer clear and do great work. Bring it up to leadership that you are facing challenges with 'unnecessary aggression' and ask them to handle it.

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Talk to her!

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