Leaving for competition (actually relocating to my home country in new bank’s local office). Former md seems mad. How to handle?

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Don’t see the issue, people leave banking all the time. Did you sit down with him to tell him you’re leaving and why? Or did he hear from someone else like HR or staffer that you told first?

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Well, if ur md didn’t offer to help you relocate within the same firm and getting a better position at your home country, don’t see a reason he/she be mad?

Thanks for your answers. Actually getting coffee with him soon to chat about it

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