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How do u convince wife for sex ?
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Being single in advertising is dangerous. Fuck.
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Very bad behaviour of pwc
They asked details for interview by third party recruiting team.
And then after 1 2 weeks, didn't ask me for a date and time, booked the slot themselves.
And I thought that maybe I can try and adjust, but when I attended the interview, no one actually joined the interview.
I stayed for 15 minutes.
I mailed the HR 2 times since then, but no response. This is so unprofessional PwC PwC India
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Any gays in SD? 😅
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Confidence is sexy - try projecting some of that
This is a lie sexy people tell to ugly people because they think their confidence is what helped them find someone. 😂
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You are single because you and everybody else are always looking for the next best thing and not willing to settle for less than the perfect match. We are bombarded with the idea of having total control over our choices that we forget that people are not objects that we can configure to our tastes.
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Disagree. I'm attractive but I'm no model. I don't want to date an Adonis with a perfect jawline and rock hard abs. I'd rather date a guy that's a 6/7 out of 10 and has substance, humor, ambition, good values, and is down to get Cinnabon on a Friday night & binge a TV show 😂
This started to sound like a matchmaking thread lol
I'm single because I'm too picky.
Nonsense, I want you!
Also, people get over looks writhing a period of time. Then all your left with is someone’s nasty personality and no one wants that.
Absolutely not, of course traditionally more attractive people will have more suitors but everyone can find someone. Confidence in yourself can honestly be the most attractive quality
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Half true. Being sufficiently cute/hot will be enough for some people. However, you can be rejected for other reasons: hot but dumb or hot but jerk are common combos that get rejected. And hot is great for hookups, but beauty fades, so that's not a great long term play.
I think of life like a role playing game. Maxing any one stat could be great in some scenarios, but definitely not all. The optimal strategy may be to spread your points across a subset of criteria. You don't need to match everyone else's point allocation, and that's not feasible anyway, but you should consider how your point allocation can compete.
Lol I just remembered judge Judy’s quote: “Beauty fades. Dumb is forever.”
I feel like you need to add money to your framework and set "two out of three" (looks/personality/money) as your success condition.
Consulting has made me old and haggard, but I'm finally getting paid enough to be datable again. Personality-wise still just getting by
It’s also lonely at the top too, so it can take some time to find someone as attractive.
But agree that some people saying they are picky are actually average looking and punching above their weight looks wise while ignoring people they could be happy with.
Please DM me too @M3
Single and sexually desirable are 2 different things. You may be more popular on Grindr and get more ‘dates’ but at the end of the day, a toxic personality is a toxic personality -
What about performance in bed
Nope.
You might be right for short-term flings, but in the long run, it all comes down to personality. I'd rather have one full, deep relationship over 50 superficial encounters.