Life with covid-19. I dated someone for about two years. During that time she broke up with me four different times. Finally, I realized things were (cont)

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Went through this myself from 20 to 23. Girlfriend at the time would keep me on a string but ended up dating a lot of others. I was hung up over her the whole time and a few relationships that could have been amazing were put on hold in hopes of being with her again because of the way she made me feel.

We would talk once or twice a month and on one occasion I told her I was going on a date with a PA the next day. She called me at 5pm, the time of our date and it all made sense to me that she was just keeping me on a string.

I ended up marrying the PA and now we have two kids and I couldn’t be happier. Life ends up working out. Just focus on the goals of your life and don’t bother with the short game stuff.

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Love this ❤️

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She’s an ex for a reason.

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Yes! Thank you for the reminder

Just block her if u have any dignity

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Yeah, I think I have no choice. I end up thinking about her for a few hours with every text. Such a waste of head space.

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Not going anywhere and I called it off, despite having strong feelings for her. Now she wants to be just friends and wants to be friends. She says we should cause covid19 is crazy. But, I don’t think it’s a good idea at all.

Thoughts?

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very convenient

Lol wut?

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You already know the answer to that question, but if you need assurance then I’d say listen to your gut.

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Exactly — assurance

She does not know what she truly wants and she is manipulating you. This back and forth is unhealthy. Move on, bud

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Thanks

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Damn man I had basically this same situation happen to me years ago. Girl strung me along for over 2 years. She was on and off with her ex and would date me on and off each time promising me she was "over" him. Once I cut her off cold turkey it was the best thing I could have done for myself. I know it's hard because of the feels but stay strong! Once you've become immune to her sirens song you will wonder what you saw in her in the first place!

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I know a lot of people whose exes have texted them during this period of social isolation. People are lonely, and reaching out for comfort however they can get it. But recognize that that’s not really a valid/healthy reason to reconnect; better to connect with friends and family right now.

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Thanks SC1

Dude I’m going through the exact same thing right now. Broke up two weeks ago

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No I’m not really having any problems with it. It’s mostly her reaching out to me and me declining calls

She wants your D bro.

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She wants his Deloitte? I guess. It is harder to get than Harvard. 😂

Confused.... so you called it off and she agreed. She wants to stay friends and you don’t... is this right?

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The fact that you have broken up 4X should be a sign. Take the Covid social distancing as an opportunity to separate. I know it’s hard at first (been there!) but once you find someone who reciprocates you’re feelings you will be much happier in the long run.

Stay away.

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Having been through something similar and on the other side after a couple very long years - cut her off.

If she is really your friend she will understand you need your time and space. And if you guys are good friends you can reconnect later. If she doesn't respect that, she is acting selfishly.

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Breaking up four times... Holy shit, that sounds exhausting. Hard pass! Rather die single than touch that madness with a 6ft pole.


Every time they text or tempt u, call or text your mom/dad/gran/gramps/siblings. I am sure they would love to hear from u.

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Uhhhhhhh

Put down the acid and try this post again in a few hours.

Haha what?

T.H.A.L.

Funny, I thought we'd all be out of HS by now... That chick ('cuz she isn't mature enough to be called a woman) is totally baggage that you don't need. Stay healthy because lots of women are finding out how much of a Putz they are currently with. Be strong as there's a huge 'crop'of eligible women about to become available.

I know this sounds sexist but true, nonetheless.

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