Lingerie advice: style, color, lace. When is it appropriate to wear it for a guy (Ie date 1,2 or after married)? I’m a really big fan, but have heard mixed reviews. Please help

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Wear it whenever *you* feel comfortable. Heck, you could wear it to feel sexy even if you have no intention of letting him see it that evening.
Personally, I like reds, blues, and blacks in lace or satin/silk.

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High quality stuff shouldn't!

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Wear it because it makes you feel sexy, and wear whatever you like! Honestly most men don't care what style you wear, and are more flattered that you took the time to wear it for them.

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Hahah, that is the hope. We haven’t been seeing each other long, but I thought what the heck. Plus I feel really comfortable around him. Tbh, I’m doing it more for myself 😂

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Get some Agent Provocateur nude coloured stockings with the black thigh band and a thin black seam going up the back of the leg, and a black garter belt. Looks dynamite with a black pencil skirt, and makes for an excellent reveal if things get that far.

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After married? Heard mixed reviews? Who are you talking to, lady?!

I’m also not quite sure what you’re referring to as lingerie - to me it’s basically everything non cotton, which is pretty much an every day thing for me. I like lacy pretty undergarments and they make me feel good, and where as I hate pantyhose, I do thigh highs when it gets colder - it’s more comfortable for me.

Second the responses above - wear what makes you feel good and when you want it. If you want to get something sexy for a guy, that’s cool too - I’m sure he would appreciate it.

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If most of what you already own is cotton or granny panties, I’d suggest trying out Hanky Panky thongs as a first step since they’re super comfortable but also sexy since they’re stretch lace

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I wear bonkers lingerie to work when I have a big meeting- lacy bras, thigh high stockings, light corsets, you name it. Usually works fine under a sheath dress or blouse/skirt- it’s all about fit. I love it, independent of wearing it for my partner, which happens mainly as a side effect of wearing it for work

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I’m a skirts/dresses person mostly, so haven’t tried it with pants. Maybe try a great lace bodysuit?

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Originally posted in singles but changed my mind and thought here was better.

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You right haha, here is waaaay better 😂

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Who cares what the guy thinks... if you love it, wear it!

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What lacy brands do people love?! I’m a big fan of dressing up for yourself. Big confidence boost even if you’re the only one seeing it! I wear extra pretty things for big meetings etc just to feel extra confident.

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Update: I bought a 4 piece set, garter belts and all. Will try it out tonight. Thank you everyone for your help

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So what kind of clothes do you were over these outfits? Not sure exactly, what would work well.

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