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Little offtopic..
Trying to move on from relationship. I tried keeping it casual, got attached due to efforts put in by partner. Now its getting realllly difficult.
I feel its affecting me more bacause of this wfh situation & not much work . I get stuck in my room alone with laptop & nothing to do & thinking about depressing thoughts.
Hating this No meetings & deadlines thing as wanted to get busy.
Thought of going office to socialize & put away thoughts but its inconvenient as it is far away.

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Start going office :) a well maintained balance is needed everywhere.. even staying with parents 24 hrs can start bothering. That doesn't mean running away is option. You are just bored because of no work, that's it !

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I usually don't care about relationship n s*it. Take a train, go somewhere. Don't be devdas.

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You lucky bro. Less work and also got a GF.
Invite her to your place and both work from your place.
Other suggestions, migrate near office location. Have some pet with you, Cat/Dog/Parrot.

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If No work, start a business parallel. Like cake shop. Where u don't need much work. Just keep an eye on the shop workers. Just sit in corner and do office work. And check after every 2 hrs

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@infy why so scared, it feels like they control way too much

you should not think about someone who didn't value you and your relationship. Go to office, mingle with people and come out of this awful thought. You might have a sweet family ,good friends around you .Talk to them and get rid of your partner .

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Find another girl with whom you have a future.

Travel man. Roam around and out take long tours and thank me later. Travel and live in hostels, is the best solution.

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Hit the gym big bro

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You can start practicing meditation.
Ex. Isha kriya from Isha foundation. You can find it on YouTube. Just practice it twice a day and you are sorted.

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Play games..watch Netflix, gym, self care, clean your room, go out , meet friends..so much things to do

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Following all.. Its just with time you get frustrated. This all are thing I like to do & also helps but I feel like if there is something I must do, that will be more helpful..

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in a same boat 😢

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thanks for your words.. We know what to do but we can't do it. It takes lot of courage and i m becoming hopeless day by day. Even councelling didn't helped me. Noone can understand the pain of our situation. Recently my family started looking for alliance, thought of being with someone else haunting me daily. I dont know how will i deal with that. Anyways more power to you hope you will come out of this very soon.

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