Lol, my bonus can’t even cover the cost of me trying to get evaluated by a psychiatrist

What is the pay cycle in IBM. Do we get at last working day of the month? And if we join before 20th do we get salary of 10 days in the same month or next month?

Therapy’s too expensive, I’ve been sleeping way too much again (12 hours +) and still waking up tired while having no appetite to the point I’m losing too much weight. I know this isn’t right but I don’t know how to pick myself up.

Guys , Reality check

Comment your year of experience, tech stack/ area of expertise , salary( only fixed ) without variable.

This will give us a market standard check.

Thanks in advance

Finishing up a clerkship & trying to negotiate a clerkship bonus with my firm. Anyone and everyone - drop the clerkship bonuses you’ve heard of (or received) & firm size (small/medium/large is enough) so I can come with some numbers/averages. Much appreciated!!

Has anyone successfully overcome a drinking problem? Any advice?

what’s the normal % for RSUs compared to salary for tech sales? e.g 10% RSUs or 20k per year RSUs with a 200k salary

Can anyone tell me what is the Highest & Average Salary drawn by any AVP at Yes Bank? Thanks in advance

Hey,

Anyone knows why DI is delaying the onboarding for a bunch of folks selected through campus placement? Some of the hires started their their onboarding in Sept and are well settled in the system and recent update from HR is that for everyone still waiting to get a joining date needs to undergo some training and up skilling program for 12 weeks ( a reduced stipend will be paid along with 1st months salary). Any insights will be helpful!!

Do you guys think there’s going to be more or less eligible bachelors once we get out of this pandemic? Or is everyone going to be in LTR 😂

I just started meds yesterday and the change in my focus and attention to detail is mind blowing. My only concern is, just yesterday I had a tough feedback session with my manager around how I’m taking too long to complete my work, giving them anxiety around close deadlines. I’m new in the job (3 months in). Should I explain anything about my adhd to my manager or just wait for them to notice the change in me?

Any insight on CAIA? Difficulty and whether it impacts salary?

Has your Urgent Care facility or ones around you started testing for COVID19? If so, do you offer both the Antibody test and Viral swab?

What salary can we expect for senior technical consultant from Salesforce company?

How much time should we should wait for offer letter release, once all the discussion of salary already happened ?

Looking for a recommendation for a new doctor/PA/whatever for ADD medicine. I have been on medicine for 15 years and think it’s crazy to come in 4 times a year and pay $300 for a 3 minute appointment.

Hello! I’m going to BSchool in August. Any recommendations on books / websites / videos to be more prepared for management consulting interviews?

Good trendy/sporty watches for men to buy under $5k! Don’t want anything with a steel belt. Please recommend brands/models and stores to buy them from. Thanks!!

Hi Account friends! It’s the start of a new year and I was hoping you all could share any book / newsletter / blog / course recommendations that help keep you up to snuff. Feeling a bit stale and like the last year has been a tactical grind. I want to brush up on modern thinking for our industry - the latest and greatest marketing books, strategy perspectives, creative self help, etc. to feel more alive as we start 2022.

Comment your favs and THANK YOU in advance!

OR circulating nurse here. Will preface this by saying I have the utmost respect for CSFAs in the OR setting. However, wondering if any other OR RN’s have had issues with CSFAs feeling and acting like they are in charge of the room or attempt to carry out tasks that you as an RN are supposed to do? I do love having help, but we have one FA who hijacks my tasks and gets upset when i do not do things the way they would and attempts to instruct me on how to do my job

given the things Trump did while being president, including the January 6 mob on the Capitol, why has it taken so long for justice?

Salam everyone, I’m looking to move to NYC. Let me know if anyone is looking for a roommate

Hello! Could you help me out here please? What would be the ctc for an ID? Year of experience = 5.5

Anyone got fever or chills after second vaccine shot ? How did you deal with it? Tylenol?

How’s MSFT india hike’s and stock awards , max to max what %of annual stocks vested over the year

Hey there, is anyone based in London that can provide a referral for an insurance administrator position?

Friends:

'Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.' (Matthew 5). I am so glad that the Lord showed me that I am poor in spirit.

Is everyone based in us?

Hello! Have a question regarding my dropbox appointment for H1B extension. My current appointment is in Mumbai but I heard there is a new rule which lets you submit your documents in any VAC in the country. Does that mean I can go to Hyderabad VAC? Has anyone does this before?

I just bought some places in Logan Square and renting them out. $2k for a 2 bed and $1.4k for a 1 bed (both renovated in 2013, near blue line, big backyard). DM me if you know someone interested.

Could anyone please let me know the CTC for band 6C with three years of experience, kindly let me know, TIA

hello! I am teqching environmental science this year and just looking for tips and ideas.

Just diagnosed with bipolar ii. Have had a hunch but the actual diagnosis does scare me a bit. For those who have it, how do you manage? trying to be more intentional and would love any advice.

Is there anyone here who could refer me i am looking to grow my career in tech security i am willing learn on the job if there is such a chance given to me I have 12 years experience in sales and marketing and digital marketing .

Thank you

Just diagnosed with bipolar ii. Have had a hunch but the actual diagnosis does scare me a bit. For those who have it, how do you manage? trying to be more intentional and would love any advice.

Has anyone here tried psilocybin to treat depression? I’ve taken zoloft for years and it worked until it didn’t. Switched to escitalopram and same thing../ I’ve read great research done using mushrooms and I’m curious, I’m done with the pills

Anyone else dealing with eating disorders/what did you do about it? Have had them ever since university and consulting (expensed meals, little sleep, stress) made it way worse.

6month in BA here. Does anyone constantly feel like they are underperforming. While not having received any feedback that would justify this thinking, I feel as if I am not moving at the same pace

What “self help” books are you guys reading? I just read Untamed by Glennon Doyle and wow, I want to start from the beginning again, but feel like I should read something else. Would love any suggestions.

I genuinely struggle w/ not taking constructive criticism/feedback personally, and usually wind up getting angry, upset, or begrudging of the person who gave me feedback. What’s a better way to manage this?

Currently in therapy every week at lunch because that’s all my therapist had available. It’s been fine when we’re work from home, but what would you say you have every week while in the office?

Performance review recently, good performer and all is going well. Up for promotion. Then my project MD emails me saying we should connect and I go into tailspin thinking I’m in trouble. Logically, am I getting fired? And why is this exactly where my mind goes?

I’ve decided that I’m leaving by August, either to grad school or another job. Even though I have an end date, I’m still just as miserable, and August seems so far away. Any advice?

I’m depressed, anxious, unmotivated, uninterested, easily frustrated, dead inside, etc. i pretend to be the opposite of me during interview and got the job. I’m starting the new job soon, do I continue faking it? I usually work with people who needs you to be nice and warm and involved and conversational and I force myself to be that and got burned out every day and I would hate faking again in new job..

Anyone else feel like you just can’t be upbeat anymore? Like you’ve had too many bad/unfortunate things happen and now you don’t trust anyone and feel like the world is against you? I can’t get past these thoughts and feelings lately, and now it’s impeding my work. Already seeing a therapist so I’m just looking for some advice from anyone else who has overcome this. Thanks.

How do you realize you’re stressed? How do you recognize the feeling of stress? How would you describe it?

Sometimes I don’t consciously recognize it, but when I’m truly stressed I start getting headaches that goes on for months.

Trust. I had three situations in the last 24 hours where things did not work out as they should or I was given wrong information. These situations were small and are definitely first world issues.

But it underlined for me how important trust is and how I feel so alone not having anyone there I know 100% I can trust them.

Everything around me is I have the fight a little or a lot for the actual truth. And that saddens me

I'm "funemployed" right now as I wrapped up my last job on Friday and my new job starts August 1st. This is the first time since college that my fight or flight hasn't had a strangle hold on me

desperately need to talk to someone, I’m suicidal, if anyone has a couple minutes, it would mean the world to me, I promise im being genuine…

I'm curious, has anyone ever called the suicide prevention numbers? What was your experience?

Thoughts on anxiety medications? I struggle with anxiety and low confidence and hoping they help. How is it going on them (or off them)?

Going to attend my MBA in a top b school soon but I feel absolutely anxious and scared. I havent socialized in the past 2 yrs and Im just really overwhelmed

Heading to a law school reunion of sorts and anxious about the brag fest that will ensue, along with the prying questions about how well others are doing in comparison. I have not proven as successful (big law/loans paid) as some of my colleagues and I can’t avoid this event. The anxiety is creeping. How would you handle it?