Lol rant. I created a draft deliverable today and sat on an hour long call where 3 male managers talked non stop and picked it apart. I guess I shouldn't have gotten attached to it but there's something emotionally exhausting about producing something you're semi-proud of, to have them tear it apart without even letting you have a word in edgewise. I totally understand the client having feedback but there was something so uncomfortable about being talked over and torn apart.

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For sure, but you have to remember they picked apart the presentation, not you.

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You're right. Growing thick skin is part of surviving the industry so I'm a work in progress 💫

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Were they included throughout process? I’ve learned to do this even though it slows me down 😫 but avoids moments like this. Post it on teams and ask to take a look to see if it’s headed in the right direction

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So true it hurts 🙌

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