Long distance couples how have you made it work?
My boyfriend and I are currently dating distance and US/Canada. We’re trying to figure out how to live in the same place but the borders and immigration make it another level of difficult.

I hate that I still want to hear from him. I just have no idea what I want him to say or what I want to say. I feel like if I get anywhere near him he’ll be able to sense my pain. Are we sure the no contact rule is only 21 days? I feel like I need 21 months.

My spouse has made it clear to me that they no longer support me working in biglaw and want me to find a job with more reasonable hours. They were supportive early in my career and when we had one child, but our second was born a couple of years ago and all the additional work they put in at home, the lack of family time and lack of couples time is becoming a big strain on our marriage. We are in a high cost of living city so will have to undergo a major lifestyle change if we forego my biglaw..

Anyone ever been ghosted? How did you deal? I feel horrible - 6 month relationship, we were saying we loved each other, future plans and then he disappeared stopped responding to messages (unread) and picking up calls 😰 I saw him in person after a week he said he was taking a moment and he’d explain - but hasn’t. How do I move on with no closure? It’s been almost 2 weeks

Our 5 month old started daycare about 5 weeks ago. We’ve already had to keep her home for 2.5 of those 5 weeks due to catching various illnesses (croup, rsv, brinchiolitis, etc). Both my wife and I have been sick most of that time as well (gotten it from the baby). Wife is thinking we get a full time nanny for the next 4 months to help the baby build antibodies. Cost aside, is this feasible / worthwhile to go thru the effort / finding the right fit, only for 4 months?

Anyone thinking about having a baby with a surrogate even being single in late 30s and a busy consultant?

Hello All, is any firm open to hiring a senior consultant specializing in Data Analytics and ML. I have 6 years of experience with 3 years in USA in Big 4.
I would require a work authorization visa to work in Germany.

Got H1B lottery picked up last year (2021). Now I have an approved petition. But I am not holding visa.

In this situation - can I able to switch company? Can I able to change the petitioner(new employer) in this approved petition?

How much do TN, H1B, EB-3 visas cost for a company? Including lawyer fees...
I know the TN visa is around 500$, but i was wondering how much companies pay their lawyers to draft the paperwork.

This pandemic has made me realize I really want to live full time on a lake and work remote from there. What approach would you take to make this happen? Aside from marrying a rich, 70 year old and becoming a trophy wife...

Imigration status is on almost every job application. Some people have told me that if you need a visa just put NO so that you are not automatically disqualified and then explain your situation later if you make it to the offer stage. Thoughts on this strategy? Haven't tried it, but thinking about using it.

My SO seems to have developed an alcohol problem since quarantine began. Anyone else experiencing this?

I love this guy but my parents don’t want me to be with him. I haven’t had a good relationship with my mother ever but I can’t hurt my father like that. I just don’t have it in me. My mother (cont)

Anyone who had H1B approved petition in previous company and when switched to new company the h1b petition got transfered? I would like to understand how h1b transfer works?

2 of my best friends who were dating for over 9 years just broke up and I feel like I’m going through the breakup with them as well. I’m sad I won’t get to hang out w/ both of them at the same time

If you could go back and start over would you still choose this path? Or would you choose a different career and/or a different time to have children? I accidentally became a working parent in law so while I love my job and my children I don't think I would have planned it quite like this.

Currently with ACN in SEA, but looking to move to Australia in a year for better WLB. Anyone who's done this through Accenture or other firms? Any recommendations on how to approach this - PR/Visa, direct applications for jobs there etc.?

Hi All - Just wanted to have a sense check if it is easy for an experienced individual to find a job in UK on dependent Visa ?? Based on this I would be taking a call to resign from existing firm.

I have 4.5 years of experience post MBA - 3 years with an MNC bank in India and 1.5 years in Consulting

My wife went to consulate today for visa stamping. Her h4 approval is still pending with uscis but i am on h1b and my approval notice has come. Will that be an issue for my wife’s visa to be stamp at the receipt notice?

I'm a SWE from Italy. Love my country but salary and taxes here are outrageous. Got 2yrs experience in fullstack and data science, 2masters, a peer reviewed paper and outperform all my peers for 24k€ a year.
I'm thinkin about landing a remote SWE job (leetcoding and building a portfolio this summer).
Have you got some advice? Is it possible to work for US remotely without visa? What other countries pay well? Is it possible to land a 100k$+ with this kind of experience and working from Italy?

Worked in Financial Services and Wealth Management for 12 years. CFP working in the banking channel and completing my MBA within a few months with a focus in Mergers & Acquisitions. Really can’t take the stress and compliance involved with being an Advisor anymore I’m losing hair everyday. Any suggestions where to go?

How long did it take to bleed after a 10 cycle of provera? I just finished day 10 yesterday.

How are PMP certifications perceived in the Product Management space? Does it give you a tiny edge or is it seen as a meaningless cram certification?

What is hike and bonus percentage year on year and for avg rated person (assuming 3 as avg)

What are the average age brackets at Big 4 to be a Con, Senior Con, Manager, Senior Manager, Director, Partner? Keen for people’s perspectives.

Are the bands really High (top 15%), middle (middle 70%), and low (bottom 15%)??? Is the middle band broken down further for compensation? My dot was top right but coach says I was middle

Hi everyone, couldn’t find much Canadian content in other bowls so I figured this would be a good place to start for some real comparables!

Random thought: I used to be so easily impressed by people in PE/IB, until I started browsing Wharton profiles of fellow incoming MBAs.. and now I m just like, ah not another finance bro!

How long do people generally stay at EY?

TFW you accidentally write "please hesitate to email me"...

Is that possible to fail at HC while got strong positive feedback?

I have around 5.9 years of experience
Got opportunity from singapore suggested salary is 7500 to 8000 sgd
Im married and expecting a baby .indian ctc is 16 lpa .is it good option to move?

Based on experience from working at PwC what is the best Tax group to work for?

This heat has me tired

Is it even possible to get HSW with a low GPA (3.3-3.5 range) if you’re an ORM guy? Even if you went to top 20 undergrad, top GMAT (780-800), good work experience (top consulting firms+FAANG)?

PHR vs SHRM vs AIRS? Which one should I pursue?

Has anyone relocated to Pune? I’m confused regarding the office location. And my manager who sits in UK doesn’t have any issue if I continue to WFH

Hey there, is anyone based in London that can provide a referral for an insurance administrator position?

My boyfriend has a list of rules to follow as life guidance. I recently disagree with one of them and suggested that it could lead to miscommunication. He claimed that I shouldn’t be insinuating that there’ll be a miscommunication until there’s one (there was one in my opinion but he didn’t realize) and I’m reading things too much. Did I do something wrong here? I didn’t mean to be judgmental but just want to tell him things I observed.

The person I’m seeing has been responding to my texts days later (only a recent development) and it’s making me anxious. They have been busy the past two weeks with PhD exams and their last message was them planning when they could see me again (in a really flirty way too), so logically I know the delay is not a sign of disinterest. But I have an anxious attachment style (if that’s not obvious) and my therapist is on leave right now, so I’m struggling. Do any of you have any advice?

Thanksgiving is coming up and debating if I should invite woman I'm seeing to a family and friends gathering. On one hand we're super early into dating, on the other hand she knows very few here (foreign exchange student) and most likely doesn't have anything planned. Should I invite or not?

Looking for some perspective: we just got a brand new $2,000 glass top 78" dining table. I asked my husband to please use a table cloth when he uses that table for d&d with his friends to avoid scratches and the loud dice on the table. He got upset that I "don't let him enjoy our stuff," that I "hate the sound of him having fun," and he says I am being unreasonable. From my perspective, I just want to preserve this expensive piece of furniture that we both love. Am I being unreasonable?

Should I take my girlfriend back after she drunkenly kissed a random guy at a bar?
We were at a bar with friends and I left the bar because I was ready to go home. She stayed with friends and I later found out that she kissed a random guy and her friend had to break it up. We are 3 months in and I feel betrayed. She has assured to me that it was not cheating and just a mistake. She loves me and wants to stay together and swore to do better. I’m torn because I feel like all trust is gone.

Has anyone stayed in contact with an ex because they genuinely were a good person in your life at the time? I find it hard to completely block someone out just because you may have been incompatible in building a future together, but I’m curious how often you chat moving forward?

Why is it so hard to join a group ? My boyfriend has his group of friends (both males and females) but every time we hang out with them, I feel left out because I don’t have history with them and they all have their inside jokes and stories. He said I need to try more to interact with them but honestly I feel like certain friends mostly his female bestie is trying to not include me. I’ve tried to become friends with her but she’s not putting in effort to get to know me … I need advice.

I've been with my gf for almost 6 months now. For context she's still in grad school (we have a 2 year age gap) and I'm struggling to feel physically attracted to her. I have a good job, decent amounts of stress, I like to work out, spend time with friends, and am very outgoing. She's super sweet, kind, sensitive, and brilliant. I find her attractive but I find the fact that she's always up in my business and available to me unattractive. She also just got an amazing job in another state (1/2)

GF and I are having major issues stemming around my family not liking her. Got into a major fight Friday and haven't spoken since. She said she's having doubts and questioning the whole relationship. Today's our one year...what can I possibly say. Don't know what she's expecting

What's the best relationship advice you've heard recently?

I have a crush on my counsellor at work. She's much older but still really gracious and beautiful. Should I go for it or is this a bad idea?

My bf and I have been having the same argument for weeks now so he said he needed space (and I understand why) But he said let’s talk after Christmas… and a month feels long to me. I felt like two weeks is enough time to gather your thoughts. Can others share their experiences? Also it feels unfair for me to have to wait for his text? I don’t know what is best for me too.

How do I know if my spouse is being emotionally abusive and a bully? Everytime they can, for any mistake, they unload on me. I’m about to explode.

I’m a 28 year old male, living with gf. I think I’ve got covid - very feverish, cough, hot and cold sweats, pains etc. When I get sick I turn into a massive baby - definition of “man flu”. Is this a massive problem for women (ie a big turn off)? Luckily I only get sick once every 2-3 years, but this feels awful and I’m being a massive sook and I can’t help it lol…

I split with my BF a year ago (his decision) after four years together (off and on). In your opinion, should all ties be cut? I’m struggling to tell him to stop contacting me.

I need serious advice, please! Am I wasting my time messaging a guy I matched with online that lives on the opposite coast? Background: we message each other at least 1-2 times everyday for the last FIVE months but never over a phone call. He actually doesn't even have my number. We message on IG. He's a full-time student and full time employee so busy guy. But am I wasting my time and emotions with this guy??

My date won’t share his playlist with me (I can listen to it but he won’t share it). Just curious, is playlist a big deal to guys? We are both at early 20s and only dated for a week

Dating a guy who won’t give me a tight hug because he claims to be a “southern gentleman”. Wtf

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).