Long shot but going to ask anyway. My child who is a minor is receiving social security benefits because my ex is SS retirement eligible and started receiving the benefits. Will he be able to have SSA stop the payment to our daughter? My concern is he will out of spite because I'm going to file a petition for sole custody.
Also going to consult a lawyer next week.

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Why would you want to stop the benefit?

Going to call SSA and also consult a lawyer.

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