Looking for dating advice. I got out of a long term relationship a few months ago and started dating again a bit too soon. During that time, I went on a date with a guy who seemed great but I just wasn’t ready for anything. We ended up becoming friends. We’ve hooked up twice now and I want to date him but I’m not sure what his interest is at this point. I know I need to ask him. I’m wondering if it’s significant that for the most part I initiate things? I’m trying to gauge his interest level.

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Have the convo, if he isnt on the same page then its time for you to move on anyway.

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My hot take—based on experience, btw—is that yeah, you initiating everything is significant, and it might indicate a lack of interest and/or initiative on his part.

I’d personally pull back a bit and gauge his response to your pullback before having a conversation, since actions speak far, far louder than words

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Thanks! We’re hanging out Friday. We’ll see how it goes

Don’t put too much weight on you initiating things too much because some guys are just like that BUT maybe try being a little more reserved and see what he ends up doing.

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Don't play games just have a convo and be upfront.

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