Looking to get some thoughts on a conundrum I'm facing for my family.
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After having lost our father, my mother lived with brother in India. She visited US twice in the last 5 years.
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However now, brother is moving to Canada to study. We're debating how to keep our mom close.
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With 6 months tourist visa limit in both US and Canada, is it a legally valid option for her to stay 6 months each in US and Canada for foreseeable future?
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Any one in this situation?

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Is she ok with that plan ? Or she prefers to stay back in India with community, friends and extended family? Asking because most single parents I have seen preferred that way.

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Good point, perhaps at least a few months. But we're hesitant to leave her behind.

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I think that should be totally fine. You're not violating either of the visas. The only thing to watch out for is quarantine requirements and travel bans for visa holders for the two countries.

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Should be fine. Plan for her to stay in Canada during summers and in the US in winter.

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That's a great point

Will your brother's living arrangements be suitable for your mom's lengthy stays? If so, it should be fine.

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