M, married. Is going to a strip club cheating? Does you mate go? Indicate your gender in your reply

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Not cheating but I’d be pissed if my husband went without it being a conversation beforehand

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My wife likes going with me. Bring her along.

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Not cheating but you should let your partner know.

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Def not cheating

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Only if you’re honest about it and tell your partner. Otherwise it’s going into shady territory

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Think it depends on the couple. Some may not be comfortable having the husband go at all, some are ok if he’s only looking, some are ok with private lap dances.

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Female and I think it’s cheating if he’s like going alone or going regularly/for fun without reason. But I think it’s totally fine for events with the boys like going to bachelor parties etc. But I’d want to know before he went otherwise it would be a different issue.

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This will not go down well with me. F

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When I was married, my husband went with his buddies who were also married. Us girls went shopping and to dinner. My husband is gone now, but I miss those days 😪

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M2- read the room! 🤦‍♀️

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I love looking at naked women

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Not cheating unless you go into the champagne room

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Don't think it's cheating.. I'll let my mate go for special occasions but I'd probably feel insecure if he went everyday.. That's something to talk about.

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Personally wouldn't be ok with it, but every couple is different

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Not cheating on your spouse, but I would consider this cheating on myself. 1) huge waste of money, 2) great way to catch COVID or in normal times cold/flu, 3) huge waste of time (my wife has huge t**** and they're natural so...)

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Does she have a nice ass to match?

Nope and yes.

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Def not cheating.

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That’s not cheating in my book.

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M. Def not cheating. My wife has come with me most of the times I’ve been, and I’ve never been without her knowing I’m going

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Curious about what prompted this question

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F. Wouldn’t mind my SO going. I like to look at other men too

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F. Not cheating but I wouldn’t be happy if my husband went without telling me. And no private room. I do know women who don’t like their husbands going and so if a man knows his wife is in that camp then I think he shouldn’t go. It still wouldn’t be cheating but it’d be a serious lie.

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