Male friends - how would you react if new gf made a joke or was sarcastic about your skills in the bedroom.

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I’d joke around about something that’ll piss her off. Fight toxic with toxic 👌🏻

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This is the only way

She means it.

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Google why she’s joking on corn hub to better satisfy her next time.

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I def need to do this

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TBH, I’ve been working on myself enough to not get upset in the moment (maybe even laugh a little myself). However, privately, I’d have a convo w/ my SO asking her to never divulge our/my bedroom foibles to anyone whether in a humorous context or not. That’s just me tho 🤷🏾‍♂️

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Did she do this to you or in a friends setting? Also, what was the comment about? Lack of skills, duration, etc? Reason I’m asking is because one of ex made such comments the first few times, we ended up dating for long time, but I could never get past the first few remarks.

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Agree; let it go; can’t have these things lingering when you are starting a new relationship

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Are they just teasing you? I feel like that’s pretty common overall or maybe just trying to downplay your skills as a joke. Maybe push your buttons to get you to try harder idk. We need more details

To me that’s a boundary cross. First time, I take privately and state that I’m not ok with that.

If it continues to happen, I probably cut the relationship.

Less about my ego and more that this is someone who does not care about hurting me.

Nowadays, if you even suggest that your gf is out of shape, that constitutes abuse. I would say that what she’s doing also counts as abuse by today’s standards.

It depends on what she said and how she said it. If you didn’t please her and she said “well that was great” in a sarcastic tone, “could you be any smaller?” or “I wish your d was bigger” in an exasperated voice, how you handle the situation would be different.

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