Male šŸ : I am 31 M living in US with a happy & stable life and looking to settle down.
What online vehicles do you utilize to find an Indian partner, who is also living in US, from a marriage prospect?

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Dil Mil - my friends have used it and it worked for them. Also, there are regional matrimonial sites, do a google search for pan India and regional sites.

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Vehicles? Prospect??

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Can someone ā€œplease do the needfulā€ here

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Whatsapp groups of Desi Aunties and Uncles

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Unfortunately none OP cos am 31 like yourself and unmarried. So not officially in their categories yet. But good luck finding one.

ā€˜Happy and stable, looking to get marriedā€™ - definition of an ideal oxymoron

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A3 nailed it. Bhai if you have achieved nirvana then why

People are asking arranged marriage questions again, things are getting to normal.

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Best time ever. You wonā€™t feel the pressure to do a huge indian wedding with 9000 people of which you maybe know 50. Sastey mai chooth jaoge

OP. Similar boat - a couple years younger to you. Itā€™s tough. Following this post - although most people just seem to mock this situation. Good luck!

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Thanks man. We tend to be too judgmental sometimes

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Just tell my aunties Iā€™m feeling lonely and Iā€™m thinking about settling down.

Let them handle the rest, US citizenship goes a long way.

Mainly kidding, but I heard hinge was pretty good. I think if youā€™re in a big city it works really well. Iā€™m a few years younger, but dating has been relatively easy for me since Iā€™m open to dating outside Indians.

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Though I know my aunts sadly are waiting for the day I do tell them Iā€™m ready to get married to a nice Indian girl.

Umm ever heard of those matrimonial sites??

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Coffee meets bagel, dil mil and bumble are good!

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Seriously it is. And the single desi guys either are looking for ā€œvehiclesā€ or are looking for white girls till their parents make them choose.

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Maybe talk to parents first. They always happen to know someone..who is into match making
I would also suggest to make sure you are on the same page with parents which means not letting you rush into marriage, taking the time to get to know the person.
Worked for me that way. My husband and I lived in different states and were introduced by a family friend. Talked several months before meeting in person.

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Just to add OP- I used bumble, shaadi.com, and what not...found people extremely shady or not serious to settle. You might find someone! Good luck!!

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Agree

Thanks!!

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Shaadi and DilMil

Dilmil is 100 times better than Bharatmatrimony! Bar is too low for desi matrimony sites - ha ha

Hinge is pretty good

Ahh the good old bachelorā€™s blunder to taste the thunder...

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