Male in my mid 30s. How many of you end up hanging out with younger people only to feel disappointed because the friends around your age are either married or live in some other state? Every time I hang out, I find myself questioning, what am I doing with my life.

Advice for staying focused while WFH with kids? I’m a new dad to twins and I find myself working late to make up for being distracted by them during the day. I WFH exclusively. My wife is a SAHM and my MIL is here during the day too, but I need to find a better system to avoid getting sucked in to childcare during work hours. Tips?

I keep having sex with my ex and want to get back together (this is a recent thought & he doesn’t know) but we live on opposite coasts now. We broke up in 2016 yet we manage to hook up pretty much every other time we see each other. It always starts w an innocent hangout but he still does boyfriend duties and we end up hooking up. It feels good but also wrong at the same time. Is this normal? Am I too old for this F/30? I don’t do this with any of my other exes. Not even attracted to them anymo.

Op-Ed: As a black man with parents from Africa, I feel like Black people have been receiving reparations for decades now. Any further reparations are most likely going to be a waste of resources and regressive—especially if their fiscal.

Take someone like me:

A. Grew up in a single parent home with six brothers.

B. Had to move eight times in eight years because we were always renting a house.

C. I have three brothers who are either in jail or is a recovering addict.

But me (cont’d)...

My office knows that I recently came out of the closet to my family- which is fine, but making me feel young. Feeling the need to overcompensate as a result.

My spouse was just diagnosed with COVID-19. Only symptom has been nausea and vomiting x 1 day. Terrified not knowing if or when Ill get it living in the same house. Wondering if I should move into hotel for a few days? Anybody else with a similar experience or advice, with positive family member?

What is the latest in your pregnancy you would feel comfortable with your husband traveling? My husband is planning out his travel work schedule and is asking me and I’m honestly not sure!

Moving to Austin with baby on the way - Lakeway or Leander?

Ladies - have you had any success joining women's groups or meeting other women who golf/want to learn? Most of my friends are not interested and a lot of women at the club seem to have their own little cliques etc. Not sure what to do

My son wants to study the same as me, he is only 12 years old, but he has an immense love for biology. In spite of how flattered I feel I can't stop thinking how difficult it is to find a stable job in this profession, is it time to talk about it, or do I wait for a little longer?

My ex is always saying how good he would be in sports, singing,dancing like you name it he got it 🤦‍♂️Yet he’ve been unemployed for years unemployed 😳. Am I wrong to feel some type of way?

Hello everyone,
I’m supporting a mom who had a 2 month supply of breast milk in her freezer but the freezer stopped working at some point on Thursday after 5pm. I believe she shouldn’t re-freeze the milk at this point. She said the milk is cool but not frozen anymore. Do you have any suggestions please? Can she re-freeze it?

Does anyone have experience with a prenup/postnup? I have been wanting to get a postnuptial because I did not think about these things when I got married. We make the same salary, have separate accounts, but I have been building my wealth and working hard at saving my money while he has a mountain of debt and doesn’t save. It scares me to think if anything happens, he could just take half of my assets.

I’ve been helping couples navigate the challenges of infertility for over 20 years now. Recently, I’ve noticed more couples feeling apprehensive to continue treatment because they are worried about potential repercussions if they miscarry during the IVF process. Honestly, I’m not sure how to reassure them because I also feel afraid, but I just want to continue supporting these wonderful couples & families. I would be heartbroken if they ended up suffering more because of their treatments. I’m just feeling so conflicted & sad today after meeting with a couple who decided to postpone treatment.

Correct me if I'm wrong... For those who are older than I am.. I feel like a long term partner and marriage is really not what I envision at the beginning. Its more of just settling for what it is and compromising?

I’m trying to figure out if my girlfriend is emotionally abusive. We took a trip out of town and when she saw the Airbnb, she called me a horrible person and said it was a reflection of what (cont)

Current working as a Director of Sales and Marketing at a large hotel chain. I am now trying to branch out to a work from home position as I have a special needs bonus daughter who we now have every other week 💜. Would love to find something full time from home within the industry, or in the travel market so I can be with her.

He said he wouldn’t marry me unless I follow him back to his home country. Make the leap for love or don’t settle for someone who decides on geography over you?

Single moms with babies (and no family around to help out): how much do you spend on childcare per month?

I have been dating my gf for 6 months now. She’s a nice enough girl to hang out with but recently I’ve been feeling as though the effort in the relationship is really imbalanced. For example, she never offers to pay for dinner, never offers to cook for us (I do it), never buys gifts and doesn’t want to have sex (she she’s a virgin and wants to be sure I’m committed before she’s ready but she is happy receiving oral though).

Am I a sucker here? I’m 27, she’s 25.

Trying to get a 45 y/o sibling in to consulting (was an entrepreneur prior in the restaurant industry). No college degree but willing to bust his but to learn. Books/online courses recommended pls

My spouse was just diagnosed with COVID-19. Only symptom has been nausea and vomiting x 1 day. Terrified not knowing if or when Ill get it living in the same house. Wondering if I should move into hotel for a few days? Anybody else with a similar experience or advice, with positive family member?

Any tips/tricks for the UBE, particularly the MEE or MPT portions? I did a couple practice MPTs but largely ignored it because most samples are simplified work tasks (memos, letters, whatnot). What did you do for MPT prep? Was it sufficient?

How would you compare the UBE to a state-specific exam (like Florida or California) in terms of difficulty?

Thanks everyone!

My sister is moving to the Us soon. She has about 15 years experience. What is a good salary in the tech vertical there?

SPOT, why not? Almost at the bottom? Still strong subscriber numbers

Looking for a new job - wondered if there were any great recruiters for Carmen in the NYC area. Thx in advance!

I hope there is some law that vets have to tell the authorities when animals show signs of severe neglect

Favorite tie brand? Hermes and Thomas Pink for me.

Hello,

Does anyone have an info on the salary range for Abbvie Netherlands, job level code M? Anything that can help with the negotiation would be great.

Thanks

What is the latest in your pregnancy you would feel comfortable with your husband traveling? My husband is planning out his travel work schedule and is asking me and I’m honestly not sure!

For those people who have been on the advising side of informational interviews, what kind of questions or actions from a job seeker impressed you?

I’ve had 3 years in public accounting and I am looking to make the jump to a financial analyst role. What is a reasonable salary to expect?

One of my sports medicine friends recommended doing some simlple hip, back, and neck stretches during brief down times on shift. Makes a huge, huge difference

Getting 1.5L INR in India or 2.4L (12k PLN) in Poland per month after taxes.
Which is better?

Besides the Common Sense Media website, what other websites or sources have you found to be helpful in teaching digital citizenship?

Any single male fish want to chat 😉

How is everyone weekend going?

Do you find tattoo's attractive or unattractive? I understand that this changes somewhat based on what the tattoo is.

Anybody wants to chat dirty? 36M here!

25M here. What's a good approach to asking out females in their 30s & 40s? Looking to avoid coming off either too forward or bashful. Thank you!

Any fishes up and looking to get to know each other? 32, male, straight, 6’4”, athletic, etc.
I am a pretty good cook and have found a recent love for cooking Asian food in woks. I dream of a mountain house with gas stoves, and a sun room. Though would accept a condo for more sleep these days haha

Any 35+ male 🐠 want to chat and see where things go? 33F in a smaller East Coast US city but very willing to travel to meet in person if we actually hit it off.

34M. I am a tall athletic man. Ladies do you find tall men to be attractive?

Kevin Samuel says to buy a dog and die alone! Wow!

Gold digging post made me think about this. How much is money a factor for you in finding a partner at this age? What are financial dealbreakers or red flags for you? Would love to hear from all perspectives on this one.

Just a thought, looking for input.

What good, and bad comes out of corporate lobbying in the US?

I've seen how it can shape some policies at a a federal level, but haven't done much research at the lower levels. All input is welcome. 🙂

Anyone in SF/ San Jose? f25

Any New Yorkers free for a drink tonight?

Anybody awake and want to chat? 35M here!

Anyone in San Diego 😊?

33 female, single, no kids.