Married fish - has anyone here actually met their partner in NYC? I've had the worst luck with dating in this city.

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I'm a girl and I agree this place is a nightmare if you're looking for something more than a hookup.

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Perspective from an "asshole alpha":
- Men are wired to be polygamous, women less so
- After the honeymoon period, relationships can become a drag.. ie nagging, less sex, boring coversation, fights etc
- Wifey material is hard to come by: hot, smart, caring, successful, etc..
- Relationships and banking demands don't always jive
- Most people's standards are too high

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Yes, Hustler Club (#2)

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@AS1 maybe you just haven't found the right guy, I'm right here

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I'm a girl and can't agree more. I wonder what's going on in the city? Don't people know how to date anymore? Pretty frustrated

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Met toward the tail end of college, both lifelong New Yorkers.

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Yes

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@AS2 thanks, how sexy to hear that in New York! Any tips for me and 18 (and counting) other frustrated female finance professionals on how/where to find the right guy? What are we doing wrong?

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^ good ones are hidden, asshole alphas are more out and visible. Just gotta do the hunting and gathering until you get dig one up

@as3- amen.

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