Matched with someone on tinder and he keeps talking to me sexually. I told him I date like a straight people & I want romance first, he told that I’m homophobic 😅

Anyone from Minneapolis interested in becoming friends? Hit me up!

Can someone help me decipher what’s going on here? I need a Desi perspective. Multiple men have sent me interest on matrimonial sites but when I accept and message, they don’t respond. But the same men swipe on other dating apps. Why? Recently, one guy sent an interest on a site and swipes right on two apps. But when I reach out on the site, he cancelled his interest. 🤯

Hey so I’ve been dating a girl for three years. And she always expects me to do romantic or spontaneous things with her and come up with ideas. Should the girl be expected to do her part to. 50/50?

My friend is looking for a boy frm Banglore, she is currently working there. Age 33. Working as Hr coordinator. Caste no issue. But should be kannadiga.

Should you disclose your relationship status (ex: taken) to co-workers when most of them are single or use the ambiguity to get ahead/ fit in?

Welcome, friends! I created this community to meet others in the city during these strange times.

This will primarily serve as a safe space to meet friends. If your vibe is more on the dating end, that's fine too.

Let's be kind, inclusive, and respectful. I've already met some of you in person, looking forward to meet more folks here!

I thought biglaw was going to make me more attractive with girls (I have had my share of women in the past, but I wouldn’t say I’m too popular).

Worked for 4 years now, many dates called off bc of my work schedule and most girls lose interest bc they see me as a workoholic. And those who stick around expect dinners, travels and gifts paid for by yours truly.

Where is that girl I can cuddle up with on the couch with or go running or hiking with? I guess they go for men who have time for them

off-topic:
in office have you seen any girl wear nosepin?

Any single, queer ladies here? 🔍

For those who are actively dating, how’s it going?

I met a couple girls through a friend and they’re both really smart and fun to be with. I’ve been thinking about getting back in the dating scene but don’t know which one to ask out. They’re both friends so I can’t really try the other if one doesn’t work out. Thoughts?

Has anyone else quit the apps and starting meeting people IRL? It's so much better imo

Just got out of a 5 yr long term relationship. I’m just realizing how awesome the 30+ dating pool is. Everyone is established, got their shits together, no time for games, and we are treating each other like adults. I love my 30s !

What do single fishes (mid 30s give or take) do in Atlanta? Besides going to bars do you ever meet up? Any particular things you do or places you hang out?

I’m in consulting and I want to date. 30M in Indianapolis. Any fish out there?

Dating a guy who won’t give me a tight hug because he claims to be a “southern gentleman”. Wtf

Do you think pet names undermine respect in a romantic relationship? 🤔

Can anyone comment on the Nashville dating scene? I am newly transplanted but a little confused by what's going on here

What makes a girlfriend wife material? How does a guy know when he wants to date a girl? I feel like girls know sooner when they want to date a guy, than guys knowing when they want to date a girl

Any 40F interested in connecting?

When they release DOJ? I got my offer letter already a week back .. BGV in process done with offer acceptance. When can i expect DOJ

AT Kearney definitely sounds better than Kearney. That name sounds like a city or store. Don’t @ me

I recently accepted an offer (company X) for Aug 1. Com X (big company) is a media planning role (same title I have now: Senior associate), but in a different media type & pays $10K more ($70K). However, I had also applied to PM roles and had no luck with getting any callbacks until recently.

Com Y, is small (<100 employees) but pays $80K+. Would it be weird to take an offer and then leave (if I get the com y job)?

Com X job said I could be sup/man given time, earning $80K+, advice?

What is the process of getting ID card. I have already sent employee ID and Date of joining on mentioned mail ID which HR gave.
And I have recieved SMS also for laptop. We cant pic up laptop without ID card ?

Looking forward to upward feedback.

Does anyone have experience with getting rid of their timeshare? My dad convinced me to go in with him when I was 21…horrible decision I could ever make.

Do you believe influencers have just as many efficient marketing skills as someone in the field?

Tcs ibegin page is not accesible. It's saying page not found. And they have also postponed my DOJ from Dec to Jan.

I have to go to a weeklong training where we are expected to share rooms. I was recently diagnosed with sleep apnea and started using a CPAP machine. I know it’s not that big of a deal, but (cont)

Hi, I’m immediate joiner in devops azure profile. 10 days remaining I’m looking for opportunities

Any referrals please Dm

Beyond your work, what do you do to improve your career skills?

Based on the recent Supreme Court update is it illegal for a company to mandate getting a booster? Does your company require getting a booster?

How many books do you read in a year? I’m curious. Do people even read books anymore?

Can any one tell me, how to invest in quant mutual fund through it's website?

What are good areas to invest in the Middle East (stocks, certificates, real estate etc.)? Open to hearing about both low-risk and high-risk asset classes. For people who invest in US / European markets, what platforms do you use?

Joel Kim Booster is my spirit animal

Folks with a smaller 🍆 - how do you deal with it? 75% of the time I am fine with it, but sometimes just get sad that there isn’t anything I can do about it. Looks are a big thing in the gay community and I know that I will always be judged by its size (even if people say they don’t judge)

How often do you meet guys on Grindr when traveling?

How to fetch an on-site/client opportunity? Been into Analytics & Consulting from past 6 years. I've continued with a firm for 5 years and they just ended up making excuses for senior folks being priority.
I'm very passionate for consultancy services/ideas. Was even able to fetch some 250k worth of projects to the firm.
I'm desperate for an on-site opportunities and trying everything in my power to achieve that. Any ideas/guidance would be highly appreciated!

Anyone into pageantry? It’s the pageant season and would be fun to discuss favorites! 😛

Hey everyone. 28 y o Chicago dude here

This is the longest I’ve gone without any sexual activities with another person. I’m dying.

A ballet dancer introduced me dancebelt which is a type of thong for support used mostly by dancers; suggested is much better than jocks and things. Anyone with experience? I wear thongs

Best NYC pride things to do? I’m not really into the rave/ Pride Island scene, but open to bars, restaurants, other events etc

Just moved to NYC. 28 M Desi looking to make friends in the city.

All my closefriends are straight and from my college days. All of them are now married and/or have kids. I really don’t know where I fit in anymore as a single gay man.

Hi everyone - I’m just beginning my career and I’m very proud of the work I’ve done in accepting myself and living openly after having grown up Catholic. Through a lot of self-examination, I’ve started to realize the full extent of the trauma I experienced and held onto from growing up LGBT. I’m honestly surprised that this part of the process isn’t more talked about as it seems to be a relatively common experience. Are there any resources you’d recommend to help with this healing process?

Traveling solo to Sydney, Australia for NYE. Any tips? Since it is a trek, I plan on staying for 3 weeks. Already got my visa and securing lodging 🎉

Decided I finally want to try to get back into shape after years of neglect. I found a personal trainer a few months ago that can work around my schedule, but the quote I received last week seemed really high. It’d be 1-on-1 and at a private studio, so I knew it’d be slightly expensive, but the monthly cost is like $1,500 for 12 sessions. Is that reasonable? This is in a HCOL city.

What dating apps do gay men use in UK? I am not into Grindr if that helps. I am particularly looking for apps recommendations where men are a bit more serious about dates, friendships, and LTR.

Any guys wanna grab a drink in nyc this weekend? M 24

What are your favourite consultant instagay profiles?

I have to be on antidepressants to continue working and staying in the US. My partner supported this way and hope to turn my situation around in two years. However, I don't know if I can hold on for that long. I don't enjoy working on Accounting on work visa and it drives me depressed...