Meeting my team/manager for the first time this weekend (I onboarded after wfh), and I’m so insecure about my body 😢 We’re meeting for a socially distant outdoor deck party, and dressing casual. I look sooo bad in jeans and I hate the way my body looks in casual clothes. I know my coworkers don’t care, but I know I’m going to be so uncomfortable. Can someone talk some sense into me or give me fashion advice? 😰

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What do you feel most confident in? If you hate jeans, don't wear them!

Any casual dresses you love? What's most important is wearing you feel confident in, not what you think is lost socially acceptable

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I feel like it doesn’t suit me! I don’t even own sneakers 😕

I have plenty of ideas! But first, can you give more specifics? What don’t you like about jeans or casual clothes? That’ll help me point out ways to make you feel more comfortable. Regardless of what you wear, and what is suggested (either by me or others) I do implore you to find ways to realize/understand you are beautiful in your own skin! I don’t care what your shape is, you are the only one to notice “flaws” or be unhappy with yourself compared to what others think.

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Aww thank you! I just feel too skinny for casual clothes— and not in a good way (skinny due to health problems)

Flowy pants always 😎

I don’t have any!! 😬

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