Men- does post nut clarity usually cause regret for your partner and the relationship you’re in? Or can it be a positive realization that strengthens your emotional connection?

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When I’ve been with someone I really like, it feels like “damn, I feel so lucky right now, I wish I could stay in this moment forever”

When I’ve pulled let’s just say flings from a bar, it’s been like “wow, how did I even get here. Code red, time to evacuate” proceed to call Uber.

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When dating my wife MANY years ago, I intentionally took it slow. Good decision. Post first nut I was already head over heels in love.

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Always Positive if it’s with my partner. Could go either way if it’s just a trick, but generally
Positive.

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Helps clarify the need for not committing and just leaving the scene only giving some sticky icky, and bubble gum…bubble gum being optional, depending on if I actually like said post nut recipient.

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Usually regret but I also do not have a serious partner. Just a serial dating guy in his twenties

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With my current long term partner, it reaffirms the love I have for her. For FWBs or shorter term relationships I had in the past, LOTS of regret

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First is always going to be different but every time is great - releases all those bonding chemical reactions. The hardest years of our marriage is also the years when a month could go by without sex - fortunately a long time ago.

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I usually need to take a piss

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It’s usually nap time after. Nothing like that feeling that goes through your body directly after.

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It could be either. Sometimes if it’s self play it help me prevent making a bad decision.

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