Men- if you text a girl you “like” but have never asked out on a date that you missed her and she responds “you could ask me out on a date”. How would you respond?

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Straight Woman here. I would ask her out on a date…..

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Why would sleeping with her disqualify her from dating? She clearly said you could ask her out.

Why do you keep saying you “already slept with her” so you can’t take her on a date? Do you think married couples with children shouldn’t go on dates because they’ve already slept together? She is creating new boundaries and obviously does not want your connection to be a hookup. If I were you I would just ask her on a date if you actually like her. It’s a symbol of respect and effort. As a woman I promise you she will think less of you if you don’t do it. Because she is literally telling you what she wants.

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Assuming you're the girl in this scenario... if he likes you, he would ask you out after this. You literally said you wanted him to ask you on a date. If he makes excuses, he's not into you.

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If I "liked" her, then that's the easiest cue to ask her out

I'm gonna assume you're the girl in this scenario, but please correct me if I'm wrong. If he actually liked you, he probably should've asked you out already. It sounds like he's just looking to hook up with you

Ask yourself what do you want from this girl? If you already slept with her, do you want to keep it that way going forward, or do you prefer to take this to the next level? If the former, ask her out on a date. Otherwise, make your intentions clear.

“You can too?”

ASK HER OUT!!!!

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