Met a guy on Grindr and we did some kinky/fatancy play, I really liked him but I know that I met him for some kink reason, is it possible to convert this to a relationship?

likefunny
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Anything is possible if you play your cards right.

like

Agree

I don’t see why not? You already know you have compatibility in bed. I really don’t see why this would be an issue.

Also I tried to figure out for 5 minutes what kind of modern kink “fatancy” is

like

Fat and fancy?

funny

Probably more likely than usual because some kinks are harder to satisfy than others.

like

What was the fantasy/kink? 🤭

like

I actually think it could depend on ... what kind of kinks.

Not just because I'm nosy and curious (I am)

But also - some guys on the grind w certain kinks are indicators of mental hangups and things that people do in order to get sexual satisfaction while avoiding real intimacy or a relationship

Did you have real conversation, feel a connection with this guy? Or was it strictly sex acts

like

Thought fatancy was a "fat" related kink at first

funny

What makes you think he’d even be open to a relationship?

Based on your spelling ability, no. A relationship would be a fatancy 😂

Yes. Totally. I met my now husband is a bb anon flip *uck.

Yes but you need to make the move. My interest in men is with a very specific fetish. I've been surprised at how many guys contact me later on saying that they wish it was more. I could have ended it there. I've actually made some good friends though.

No kink shaming here! Glad you get to find guys into it and have your fun

like

Related Posts

By any chance anyone here know what would the salary range be for a Store Manager possition in Portland, OR? I only got the indeed estimated range and it seems low, particularly for a high end outdoor wear store. I would like to be prepared with a range for the interview.

like

Well I guess we know who couldn’t survive without the other. 🤣🤣🤣

Post Photo
likefunny

Anyone recruiting in medical affairs /medical information?

like

What is HCL post joining BVG process? Is it different than pre-joining process?

On the discover portal it's shows BVG completed (which is pre-joining) but I don't see links for uploading docs for post joining process.

like

you have some major balls to post TA using your real name, so kudos for that. i’m curious to know what you think of larry levin’s value area and if you ever use it when trading. if you’re not familiar, i can send you a link.

like

My son, 3 YoE, puts on some of my clear disposable safety glasses each and every time he goes to take a dump. That's the post. Happy Friday everyone!

likefunny

Is there anyone here that works at Bluegreen Corporation aka Bluegreen Vacations, willing to say what the compensation package looks like as an IT Systems Engineer.

A recruiter reached out and I'd like to have an idea if it's worth it before wasting both our time.

This is my 1st post, so if it's in the wrong bowl, feel free to move it. Thanks in advance.

like

I was wondering if someone can share her/his experience with Nativo or/and Taboola. Have zero experience with them, but thinking about talking to them. Thank you so much in advance!

like

Hello everyone! I am looking to connect with local IT people in Arizona and Utah. We are ALWAYS in need of local people for different types of IT remote and or in person positions.

like

You know you’re a tax accountant if.....

like

Shows like panchayat set in rural setting? Shows like these remind me of my lazy summer afternoons in my grandmas village. I love Hindi movies set in smaller towns/villages like Bareilly ki barfi, stree etc - feels natural and relatable to me. Can anyone suggest movies/series set in rural india?

likeuplifting

Has anyone recently made the switch to in house and now feel unorganized and less productive than when billing hours? For what it is worth, I’ve received good reviews and my superiors seems to be pleased with my work. Litigation was just so task based because of needing to hit billables, so without that requirement I feel a little like a fish out of water.

like

Are any L&E groups/firms hiring judicial law clerks for Fall 2023 yet (junior level - 2nd/3rd year)? Primarily interested in counseling but wouldn’t oppose some split with litigation. Any insight is appreciated!

like

What's the range for a strategy director in Toronto with around 10 years experience?

like

BCG: Do you get paid monthly or biweekly?

Any deloitte folks whose perm was filed in August 2020. Please share the status

like

Currently in B4 Tech Risk (senior 1 going to be senior 2) i want to transfer to FDD, preferably internally but looking at other big 4 too. I'm currently set to talk to a manager internally and network but is there anything else that would be recommended for me to do?

Coming from tech risk, what are my chances of getting an offer at any of the big 4s in Fdd? (Im an accting major + MAcc and working on my cpa)

like

Suggestions on tools to use to pre-assess grammar reading and writing skills-6th graders

Does anyone here work in book publicity/marketing?

I currently work in B2B marketing and have determined what I really want to do is market books, especially fiction. I'm looking for some insight into the industry to understand if it's possible to make the shift, and if so, what it will take.

If anyone's available to talk, please let me know! Would be very grateful for insights.

like

Can anyone from UPMC share their experiences there? I'm looking to apply for a role in the UPMC enterprises translational team. Thanks!

like

Additional Posts in LGBTQIA+ 🐠

Should I take help..as I can’t cry, feel no emotion, and can’t fall in love. I just think about sex when ever I meet someone

like

Anyone seen Tampa Baes? What are y’alls thoughts 👀

like

Don’t you hate it when you’re living your best life and an ex has to ruin it by announcing their engagement?

like

Be a good neighbor

Post Photo
likefunny

Any couples have or had a consistent “third?” If so, has the worked out well? To be clear “third” here is not a throuple but just a consistent outside sexual partner.

like

Need some Valentine's Day advice: I need a valentine 😢

like

Has anyone ever had an intense online connection? To the point that you felt you were falling for the person.

I feel weird asking this, but I hope I’m not the only one. I would to hear your story.

like

Is there still a KIK group of consulting gays?

like

Does anyone have (good) experience with adoption agencies they can share? Know it can be arduous & complicated so trying to do my homework. (Single male wannabe dad)

like

Hey 🐟
How often do you talk to your ex?
We broke it off because of long distance,she didn't feel too strongly for a long distance relationship.
But we've been texting twice a week with long messages for the past 4 months.
I am doing a business trip to her location for a week, she had asked to meet.

Don't know how to feel about it.
I still like her and I know she does too, but don't know if we're going to make it more complicated than it is

like

We (read I) need to take cues from straight guys. Lot of them take their first dates so seriously and also slowly. And not just jump on the date the first chance you get 😒 Comprende?

like

I feel like I can’t ever get out of my head. I workout daily, eat like a saint, try hard as possible to sleep well. On an SSRI. But I ran out of the office at 4 pm because my mind was racing. Tired

like

Hooked up with a guy a while back and we had a really great connection, talked for hours after. We’ve made plans to hang out a again and he’s cancelled twice, busy with school. Cont:

like

Poll: single / dating / partnered..? The stresses of the traveling consultant lifestyle and the fickleness of the gay male have made it nearly impossible to date consistently. Do y'all agree?

like

Getting HIV on prep VS. Getting gunshot in Chicago downtown, which has a higher rate?

likehelpful

Who is at ROMBA?

like

What’s your opinion on what I wrote on my Grindr profile? “I am looking for a top who wants to have fun. If you’re not mobile, don’t hit me up. If you’re only here to collect pics, don’t hit me up. If you’re here to waste my time, then definitely don’t hit me up. Some of you talk big game over message but don’t live up to that expectation in person. I am tired of the flakes and the last minute excuses. I love di*k but some of you can be di*ks.”

like

Okay newly single and struggling to meet women. I've tried tinder but it never goes anywhere. Lesbian 🐠 any advice?

like

I just opened my hinge account for the first time in almost a year. I scrolled through my old chats and looked at some of the convos and I’m here to tell you all something:

If your pictures have been on your profile for more than a year then boi it’s time to update!! Bonus feedback: don’t have photos older than 2-3 years or you’re setting your date up for disappointment!! YWIA!!!!! XO

likeupliftingsmart

How often do you and your partner have sex? Early mid 30s male couple asking :)

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Send download link to your phone

OR

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy.

Messaging rates may apply

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal