Met a guy on Grindr who was visiting my city for the week. We had dinner Friday night. Met up again Sat afternoon and spent a full 24 hours together. Enough in common to keep the conversation going, not get on my nerves, and enough chemistry to be attracted too. Is the next step plan a trip and hang out again for a day or two? I acknowledge jumping to anything more serious than travel buddies would be challenging and unlikely given the distance. Thoughts?

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Sure, why not?

In my experience these visit-ships often go so well in part precisely because there’s a sort of built in expiration date that takes a lot of the pressure off, and follow-up visits don’t really live up to the first one. But you never know unless you try.

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OP, this happened to me about 2 months ago. Met guy on a Saturday, we clicked and he spent the night, and then he left on Sunday. We've been dating since then and it's been great. It definitely takes work and planning to see each other.

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What’s the distance? Are you in LA and he’s in New York?

Ummm I’ve been in a happy LDR for 3 years. Stop telling people how to live their lives just because you don’t have the ability to figure out a way to make it work

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Is he a flight attendant?

No. Just someone who likes traveling and remote working all over.

Is this just a fling or do you see serious LTR potential? I’m in the same situation and only decided to pursue further once we were talking every day for months and it was clear that we had feelings for each other.

I wouldn’t get my hopes up, but I would keep an open mind and be realistic as possible. Gays are weird creatures - so you never know! Good luck 👍🏾

Gays are very weird creatures. 😹

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