Met guy on Bumble. He started off really strong with sending me audio messages, pictures and then randomly it sort of stopped. We are supposed to have our first date tomorrow morning and he texted me now asking if it still works. Feel like it’s weird how he went from intense to nothing and not sure if I should entertain the date? What do y’all think? Give him a chance or no?

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You could maybe say "I made other plans since I hadn't heard from you in a couple of days. Maybe we can reschedule another time!" or something like that. and just don't reschedule lol

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Honestly he probably started talking to someone else or is not in the right head space to go on a serious date hence why he’s getting cold feet. I’d cancel.

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Lol

He also didn’t confirm exact time. He said AM-ish

No, you going to sit at the coffee shop for 3 hours waiting for him to show up in the “AM”?

I wouldn’t say anything. I’m not a fan of ghosting but I think it’s acceptable when you haven’t even met the person

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If he can confirm with a specific and time then I think you should go. Otherwise no

Just say “does xyz time work for you” , or if you’re not feeling, just don’t text him. From a male perspective who is also on all the apps, he most likely started talking to someone else, sorry.

Why are you on bumble?
To make friends? Find love/ something serious? Just see what’s out there? FWB? ONS?

Amen

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