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Met my BF mother and when he went to the bathroom she said that pretty young girls come and go, and I'm not good enough for him so it would make both our lives easier if I just end it now =\

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Wtf that bitch

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I would've told her "thank you for saying I'm young and pretty!"

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Tell him while blowing him and then pull away before climax

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^ you need to take care of her like how Frank Underwood would. If you know what I mean. *cough* train accident *cough*

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Also remember 50% of your genes are the same with his asshole mom

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I would've called her out in front of her son... "So babe, guess what your mom and I were just talking about when you were gone? Your mom is the spawn of Satan"

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D2 - since idk who anyone actually is, it's pretty hard to do that & obvi I would post here then FB since I wouldn't call my BF mom out. Sorry my post made you bitter

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Harsh mom. Wait her out. You're dating the BF not his mom. Does give you pause, though, to think what kind of mind-game upbringing he must have had...

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And your first thought was, "I'm so going to put this on FB later for sympathy likes"

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That bitch can go rot in hell (unless what she said was true) 😈

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Your bf's*

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D2 - shut it if you have nothing to add. You don't always have to comment.
OP - don't let anything bother you if you love your bf.

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Indian BF?

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^ Come on, really? Now we are berating Indian mothers as if it wasn't enough that the entire Fishbowl fam thinks there's a big BO problem with Indians

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Pick a strategy: 1) run, or 2) become a caring daughter for this needy, lonely person. Right now she sees you as competition for her son's time. Unless she sees the value of the adage, "you're not losing a son, you're gaining a daughter," she will not value you. Help your BF be a better son -- she'll notice the change. Caution, however, some needy people are bottomless pits and you can't win, can't help. If that becomes the case, see strategy #1. And last, treat her like the hurt bully she is -- show tough love, do not cower, be strong!

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I'm disturbed by the lack of an open and upfront discussion. Something you should discuss with your bf.

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Discuss with BF. If he is super close to his mom and cannot be open during the discussion, reevaluate if you are okay with such scenarios in future. Saw way too many friends suffer because their SO cannot take a stand for them even when their parents are mean.

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You don't want that as your mother-in-law. She did you a favour, now run away!

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Tell your bf what happened. Report back here.

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Daaammmnnn!

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