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Met this guy 1.5 months ago... we’ve been on several dates and suddenly he stoped reaching out 2 weeks ago ... my pride wont let me reach out again 😔 ghosting sucks and at 28 idk if ill ever find a man at this rate

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Let God/the universe do the work to remove people that don’t need to be in your life! Take this as a blessing. The man you deserve will show up when he’s ready.

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Thank you i needed to see this ❤️

So you basically dated him for a month? Don't let one bad experience set the tone for your future relationships. If he did ghost you, he wasn't someone worth your time anyway because he didn't respect you enough to end things. Keep your chin up, you'll find someone!

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“It’s beautiful to feel love.” WHOOSHHHH, going to save that in my memory. ❤️

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Much to young to give up! Keep the faith!

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You’re only 28. Use this time to do what you want. It’s great to have a significant other. I felt the same at 28. I married at 35. I have 2 kids. I love my family. But I do wish I spent less time being concerned about dudes who didn’t know my value and had more meaningful experiences. That guy is a jerk and him ghosting you is saving you. Sorry it happed. Not sorry because you’ll meet the right one. 😉

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I was ghosted two weeks ago. People are weird af. BUT when you realize that you don’t just bring things to the table, you ARE the table - you stop giving two fcks

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