Met this guy through friends a few years back. He made me feel really special, told me he was going through a bad patch with his gf at that point. Things happened between us in a couple of months and

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He’s an a**hole, plain and simple. I know it’s tough and you did get involved with a guy in a relationship, BUT water under the bridge. This doesn’t define you, but will give you valuable experience to draw from. From here out, AVOID ALL CONTACT with this guy. I repeat end ALL contact. Block, ignore, etc. He means you or the girlfriend no good at all.

Helpful app for breakup recovery is Mend. Worth every single penny. Helped me get my sh*t together and moving on in a healthy way.

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we got romantically involved spending every weekend together. I would ask him about his gf and he’d say he’s on a break. When I told him it’s been months he mentioned that he is trying to break up but can’t as parents have gotten involved now. A couple of months later his parents visit and the gf shows up magically. When I caught him red handed he decided to leave his gf. But right after the breakup he started acting aloof. After spending a week together he said he needs some time apart to figure things out as he wants to do it right this time. Following which he comes and tells me that he won’t be able to go ahead. But we still keep meeting until a month before that I found out that he’s back with her. All the times we spoke in between he’d make lame excuses about being busy when he was actually putting in the time and effort to win her back. While I completely see my fault in not acting upon the red flags I can’t seem to get over my anxiety. When I confronted him he mentioned that he doesn’t owe me a justification anymore. It’s a pity that I once liked this human and cared for him.

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He’s absolutely not worth your time! If he could do that to a serious girlfriend, what’s saying he wouldn’t do the same to you

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