Mid 20s, dating a 33 year old guy. Should I be stressed about what I assume his priorities are. It's only been a month, obviously don't want to ask him his thoughts on marriage.

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Yeah he's probably worried you wanna become a baby factory. All he cares is getting his mushroom tip all up in them sugar walls.

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^ - as a guy, I commend you for such imagery, but damn son. Damn son, too much.

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Make his dick hard, not his life. It'll work out

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Nah, wouldn't worry about it. Chances are he's dating you precisely cause he doesn't think you'll stress about what his priorities are.

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What do you assume his priorities are?

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I haven't heard for the bf/gf tag rule before and I personally find it stupid. I dated my 10 year older bf for about 5 months before I used that term (he wanted to be together literally from week 2, but I wasn't sure so we took it slow) and now we are happily together 1.5 years down the road. Usually older men tend to know what they want relatively quickly, but I've also been with older men who took their sweet fucking time to figure out what they wanted

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It's been a month. Don't put the cart before the horse.

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You are only 20? Why dint you tell me

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I read somewhere in a month or two after dating if you do not get girlfriend or boyfriend tag then you might be wasting your time!

He's still young in relative terms so likely no rush for him. Chill and see where it goes.

#penetration

I always wonder what exactly does dating mean these days...

I agree there is no set rules in dating today, sometimes you know it after a few meetings and it works out from both the sides and some times it ends as a heartache.

I call it "seeing someone" until we are gf/bf situation... No one got time for dating

Girl, you have so many more options in your mid-twenties than a 30 somethings guy. As Chris Rock says, guys have to marry at some point or they end up the creepy old guy at the club hitting on 20 somethings. Set high expectations for what you want and trade up when someone better comes along. Better yet, play the odds game and date a couple people at the same time. No need to keep all eggs in one 30 year old basket.

D6 what if they are hotttt and successful?

Dating is a game. Don't hate the player hate the game or change the game. D5 you sound overly emotional. Your SO probably loves the extra emotion.

D6 you won't believe it but I was in a relationship with this guy who left me for a woman 20 plus years older than him and married her! We both were in late 20s.

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