Mirza Ghalib, preempting quarantine:

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Rahiye ab aisi jagah

rahiye ab aisī jagah chal kar jahāñ koī na ho
ham-suķhan koī na ho aur ham-zabāñ koī na ho

be-dar-o-dīvār sā ik ghar banāyā chāhiye
koī ham-sāya na ho aur pāsbāñ koī na ho

padiye gar bīmār to koī na ho tīmārdār
aur agar mar jāiye to nauha-ķhvāñ koī na ho

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jalā hai jism jahāñ dil bhī jal gayā hogā
kuredte ho jo ab raakh justujū kyā hai

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Mār hi dāloge

Kudrat ke niyāmoñ se ināyat na karnā,
Apni kismat pe aitbār na karnā,
Wo khud dega ijāzat āpko,
Bas, waqt se pehle pāne ki shikāyat na karnā

I read the last line as “bas waqt se pehle plane is utarne ki shikayat na karna”

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