Moms, I’m back at work after leave (came in the office for the first time today), and WOW I am tired. I can definitely tell that my mind is slower and I’m not firing at 100% thanks to baby brain. I’m also getting distracted really easily and struggling to focus.

Any tips? I’ll mostly be WFH thankfully but I feel drained. Also pumped here at the office and had a hard time focusing while pumping (not as big of an issue at home). I had hoped to make progress on a deliverable today but didn’t. 🫠

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Rotate monitor duty with significant other so you get a good night sleep every other night.
Caffeine.
Write everything down.

like

I was soooo slow when I came back. My brain speed picked up SIGNIFICANTLY when I stopped pumping.

like

This is good to know. I’m at 15 months and almost at the end. I know folks who stopped as soon as they went back to work but it was too difficult for me to ignore the pain. I kept going for much longer than I thought I would.

like

I wasn’t even pumping and I was still mega slow. It’s the hormones and will settle down in sometime. My son is 15 months now but I still feel my output at work is significantly lesser than what it used to be because my priority has shifted

like

Hang in there, you have to give your body & mind a little bit time to adapt

like

I stopped pumping at 13 mo and now at 20 mo PP, everyone around me is also noticing that I am back in my game. Though a different type of challenge has emerged: Daycare germs attack but definitely feel more like myself and have a better focus span. So much respect for you and anyone who pumps at client site! Truly moms who traveled post partum, moms who pump at client site, moms who are managing a sick toddler and a new born are truly super moms! So much respect.

like

Also - doesn’t it feel so theatrical after being immersed in such a primal time? We’re all just monkeys in suits on a rock hurling through space.

Anywho. Have a good night everyone!

like

Come on, give yourself some grace! You’ve probably been on maternity leave for months. I’m wiped out, exhausted, and unfocused after being out of office for one week on vacation.

Give yourself some time to get back in the groove. And definitely try to get as much sleep (as you can)! Congrats and good luck!

like

My attention span was completely shot when I went back to work. The Pomodoro Technique (25 min on, 5 min break) helped me build that muscle again so I could actually get stuff done.

Good luck!!

like

It will definitely take some getting used to. What’s helped me is blocking off time on my calendar everyday to basically catch up on all meeting notes, emails, deliverables, and honestly just to breathe.

like

Related Posts

Art directors who do UX/UI work, what industry software are you using? XD? Figma? Both? I’m more on the concept side of things but looking to adopt a new skill.

like

Hello!

I am currently looking for recruiting coordinator or entry level sourcer/recruiter positions remote or within San Francisco Bay Area.

like

Guidance needed :-

I have 10 YOE in fields like Cust. Service, Business development, Cust. Retention, Insurance reimbursement.

All with foreign Language related processes as I know the language. No knowledge of any tech/IT course.

My mother is very ill and to look after, I need to be at home and I want some good WFH opportunities.

Which field/sector/roles I should look for considering the experience ?

Please Help.

like

Any BCBAs out there with salary insight in the current market? Has anyone successfully found a remote / hybrid position? I’m currently making 75K with bonus options each month, however a lot of things have changed since I took the job about 4 months ago. Looking for something more flexible / to see if I can make more elsewhere. I have 5 years experience in center, home, and school.

like

Anyone receive an offer & negotiate a start date months down the road to take advantage of a better maternity leave policy, or any other reason? Wondering how many months is reasonable to ask for.

like

I’m a graduate soon to be starting new corporate job. What’s the expectation of hours spent in office now? This is my first job so I’m not sure if they will require me on site 5 days a week or adopt a hybrid strategy.

like

Imagine you're looking for a remote job at a large company with a sophisticated marketing function, strong manager, and room for growth. Making good traction, but then you're contacted by a company in a niche that FASCINATES you...like you read books about this subject for fun, you'd probably love this job. It's remote, the salary is good, the manager is nice, but you'd be the most senior marketing person; the company is about 200 people. What would you do?

like

Anyone know any recruiters who deal with business transformation, process improvement, project management roles? Especially for remote jobs? Would appreciate a referral. Thanks in advance!

like

Currently looking for a new role preferably remote in HR. I have 5 years of experience in HR. 2.5 as a director, but I’m fine with something without such a fancy title. Anyone looking?

like

I’m currently interviewing with a few top 10 firms and a couple top 100 firms for a mostly remote experienced associate/new senior role. Does anyone have any tips on virtual interviews and how to gauge the culture of the firm and if it really will be a good fit for you? I’m struggling to figure out that out because I used to gauge it on the feeling I got while in their office during interviews. Any suggestions would be helpful :)

like
like

I had a miscarriage at work and one partner had to take me to the ER as I was bleeding heavily. He asked if he can tell another partner I’m close with because he is away starting Monday and wants someone at work to know and be there for support. I wouldn’t mind in principal but a bit worried about being baby tracked. Not by the other partner but if word got out and other partners find out. But also I could really use some support as I have some work files I need someone to help cover. Thought?

like

Baby boy (9.5mos) has had diarrhea for the past 5-6 days. He’s on solids (3 meals a day) and formula 28-30oz a day. His eating hasn’t changed and he has no fever. His temperament is fine. The doctor says we need to wait it out. I’ve introduced pedialyte here and there just in case but he still has wet diapers so I don’t think he’s betting dehydrated. He poops 4-5 times a day which looks to be mild diarrhea vs severe. Is waiting it out all I can do? Any other advice?

like

Anyone has information on work from home NP positions?? I’m currently licensed in the state of Fl.

like

Hi, I’m pregnant and interested in lateraling in LA after my maternity leave. Would anyone know if any of these firms are supportive of new mothers and/or have a substantial representation of female partners? I’m in a specialty group in corporate. Latham, Gibson Dunn, White & Case, Mayer Brown, Troutman Pepper, and MoFo

like

Hi to the people who recently joined TCS or got offer from TCS ,are there projects which have remote option ? Like you can wfh from base location.

like

Hi everyone, I'm eager to get some B.A or Project experience, having recently achieved my certification in Agile Project Management and I’m looking for new opportunities as a Project Administrator or Coordinator. I am experienced in project administration, sales, and PA work. I'm especially interested if anyone has any roles (remote or hybrid) in the U.K. Thanks in advance!

like

Hey consulting moms! What is the maternity policy like at Deloitte? Thank you!

like

Husband snores and I’m oblivious but our 8 month old keeps waking up at night because of this. We love him to death and don’t want to send him out (although he is currently sleeping in our other bedroom out of guilt) for this and are also not fans of moving baby to a separate room. Any other ideas that might work or have worked in the past?

like

More Posts

Anyone from QBE NA? Looking to understand the culture and WLB

like

Favorite brands for work dresses? I need to upgrade my wardrobe & I’m looking for dresses that are wrinkle-free and comfortable!

If you’re looking forward to transitioning your career into investment banking, please let me know and I can send you a link to apply. This is an opportunity for people of color, mostly Blacks and Hispanics who may or may not have experience in finance but are passionate about finance and are wanting to try something new. I know IB is not for everyone because the hours are long but just thought I would share an opportunity with an interested sis!

like

What’s finally here? … she created a Facebook group.

Post Photo
likefunny

Which one to choose among these two
1) Barclay's
2) CITI

Pay is High in CITI around 4 LPA over Barclays. Yoe - 6 (Java Full stack)

like

Entering the US for the 1st time on L1A. What to expect at the port of entry? Anything to prepare for?

Any job cuts, furloughs, or paycuts at Cincinnati firms ?

like

Would love to have the BC walk us through some trades he is making from start to finish in as real-time as possible. I have followed him on several initial trades (SNAP and AAPL puts) and agreed with the premise of the trade which is why I made it. However, where I have seemed to lose big he seems to have managed a profit. I'm starting to call BS

like

How to deal with your mother in law from hell on your wedding day? My fiancé also agrees that his mom is losing it and she has been horrible during this whole wedding planning process. I don’t want to have to think about her or have her ruin my day.

like

How is MyConsultingOffer? Worth trying?

funnylike

Retail Pharmacy Tech wages? I wonder if I’m getting underpaid!? Our company is VERY strict on talking about wages! (:
Hospital Pharm Techs are so welcomed to share as well!

likehelpful

What are the best banks , credit unions for low auto loan interest rates? Does the visa validity determine the loan term?

like

I am looking for Data Analyst role have 2YOE. Please refer me in your company.

Will be greatful to you

like

Many in my MBA program are hyper grade focused. Do grades matter that much post MBA for future job opps at all? My approach has been to balance academics with relationship building and practicing exec presence and for me, pivoting to a new industry

like

Gave my one month notice today and now people want a piece me and talking about promotions and raises. Why cant people make you feel valued before a resignation?

like

If you can dream it, you can meme it.

Post Photo
likefunnyuplifting

I got an offer today from EY. What is software engineer rank 44?

like

You know life is back to normal when you start seeing these gurus trying to show how to quit 9-5 and make 25k a month 🤦🏻‍♂️

funnylikehelpful

My YouTube ads started (randomly??) advertising a singles meet up experience called Events & Adventures. Has anyone ever heard of it or tried it?

like

Deloitte 🐠, I am about a year and half out of UG. Is it reasonable to ask to be brought in at Consultant than Analyst? I feel that my technical knowledge exceed that of an Analyst for this specific..

like

Additional Posts in Consulting Moms

Eating dinner with my toddler at 5:45 PM has to account for some sort of intermittent fasting! Looking for silver lining while cleaning another round of “let’s hide yucky stuff in the high chair”…

like

X do glob HPp go Molly GH

likefunny

Can medela hands free replace medela pump in style advanced breast pump starter set? Primarily plan to breast feed. How difficult is it to carry advanced starter set when traveling?

Any Chicago mamas out there that want to connect? I'm an expecting mom

like

Help!

We're going on our first family trip in a couple of weeks. Going to Turks and Caicos (Beaches) from Boston. I'm super anxious about it. Haven't been on a plane in 3 years(!!), and I'm really nervous about flying with our kids. They're 2 & 4, and the 2 year old doesn't wear a mask yet.

Any pro tips for those locations or just travel in general? Anyone flown recently (post no masks) and can calm my COVID fears for the littles?

like

Hey consulting moms! What is the maternity policy like at Deloitte? Thank you!

like

8 week old has suddenly decided to sleep only in our laps/arms. Wakes up within a minute of being put down in his crib/ our bed. Tried warming his crib with a heating pad but didn’t work. Any suggestions on getting him to lie flat to sleep?

like

Our son started daycare at the beginning of the month right as I returned to work after a very extended leave. I joined a new project on my 2nd week back but haven’t been able to contribute in any meaningful way because my son keeps getting sent home with different daycare bugs and random fevers and we don’t have family nearby to watch him, so I end up having to watch him all day. I don’t know if it’s too early to feel discouraged, but I’ve been questioning my decision to return (cont’d)

We love the option of live in nanny as that would mean more flexibility and also found one. Few questions 1. - can the nanny live in the basement ? Our basement has no windows but private and big. 2.- how does meals work ? Does the nanny eat what the family eats Or does her own groceries and cooking ? 3. What amenities does she need in her private space ? - 4. any other tips/ suggestions for a successful teaming

like

Need recommendations of books or videos or trainings about sleep training 1 yr old. He was a great sleeper and now he fights both naps and hardly naps without being held and needs Montessori kind of mattress to sleep and hates his own crib. I am at wits end.

like

My 5mo loves the swing, how did you transition to crib. Currently we transfer her to lulyboo after she sleeps in swing. She sleeps for few hours and wakes up each night to dream feed contd..

Yes, I took this off the Rothy’s email, but it expresses it all pretty well! Happy Mother’s Day to all of you out there who are moms, “moms” or soon to be moms!

Post Photo
like

My nanny let my 18 month old color in sharpie on his high chair table and no matter how hard I scrub it won't come out. Trying to be graceful about this so just venting here instead. She's great with him but so cavalier about keeping things clean.

Post Photo
like