Moms with anxiety: how do you do it? Husband and I want to start a family soon, but the thought of managing my own anxiety while raising a human is terrifying 😱

Does anyone here have OCD or have a partner with OCD? My spouse has severe contamination OCD and I struggle with how best to support, but not enable them... any tips?

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

Any quitted big 4 right after a year? I got delayed with good rating but with the reason of not getting enough experiences (I took 3 months study leave). I also got assigned to busy files and for 70% of my file I worked till 10/11. Since WFH starts I completely lost the boundary of work/life and got depressed.
I realized it's not the life I want and I got burned out and cried all the time. During COVID I realize it's hard to find a job... any suggestions? I can't hold on anymore

So with possibly three vaccines arriving by January, what do we think? When does life return to normal?

When can I complain at the pub on a Friday about a physical meeting that went terribly?

When can I be socially anxious at an award show again?

Any of y’all in the DMV area? I lift 5x a week, sometimes I go alone and sometimes with a couple friends, anyone up to be gym buddies? 😬

This allergy season has been brutal! Most of my patients aren't sure if it's COVID or just bad allergies!

The pandemic, mental health issues, and financial stress caused my work to suffer. What do I do?

He said he wouldn’t marry me unless I follow him back to his home country. Make the leap for love or don’t settle for someone who decides on geography over you?

How are we coping with this adderall shortage??? My pharmacy can’t even order it 😳. Ahhhhh.

I recently left my big law role to start my own firm, and I need health insurance since that was a benefit with my prior firm. Any tips on where to find good coverage? Is it considered a business expense or a tax deduction? I don’t anticipate to be making much income this first year if that makes a difference.

Does anyone else ever feel like their parents lean too heavily on them for financial support? Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely love them and I’m so thankful. It just seems like the older they get, the less shy they are about asking for things and I’m hitting a point where I’m going to have to start saying no.

Fam need advice.. I’m struggling in my rl lately. My gf and I met virtually on social media and have been together for almost a year. Things are great normally, but whenever there comes a bit spark of argument, my gf just turned into someone else, very emotional every time, keeping this it’s all your fault attitude… She tends to go to extremes and often times went too much, e.g., she bent (hurts a lot atm but fingers ok) my fingers as part of couple fun fights (it started with her pinching me)…

What has your experience been with attending therapy to help you cope with the stress of the job? Should I look for a therapist that specifically deals with high-stress workplaces?

This job is making me severely depressed. I feel a strong sense of dread each day before work, I wake up with anxiety and I take double my dose of anti-depressants to help me make it through

Does anyone know how much equinox is monthly with the big law discount/benefit that I’m sure are the same from every firm

Does anyone else get pressure from Parents/family to move back home?

This. "While we have been staying indoors we have been slowing down the spread. What we haven't done is get rid of the virus. The virus is still out there," Slavitt said.

Currently assigned to a client and due to roll off Nov 30th. Spoke with my LM today who said they’re keen to extend and gave positive feedback but wary of signing back on as the east option. For context I’m an experienced consultant hire from April this year and looking to start building my case for Associate Manager.

Monogamy? Yay or nay?

I made it through my tech screen for Veeva Systems, and now I have my virtual team day interview..does anyone have advice on what I can study/how I can ensure I stand out as a candidate?

I’m a year into my current role and am seeking help finding PM Resources. I am taking over PM duties and systems here and we simply lack a system

Any suggestions or cost friendly software you all use ? Our setup is on average 100 customer facing projects, 3 certification engineers - projects range vastly in duration and costs but I need some sort of system to better manage them

What's your favorite DAM solution? I need to roll one into our team that can scale to an enterprise level.

Hello all,

I’m a high school CS teacher but would love to collaborate with any and all! Glad to have a “bowl” to connect on

So what do we think about working at FAANG companies? I personally have stayed away from interviewing with them, as I have heard horror stories about work life balance.

Hi fishes,

I am interested in working aboard residing in India. What should I be prepared before trying for jobs aboard. Especially money. I couldn't safe much since I learn only decent amount. YOE :3

I’m a Human Resources coordinator at a call center with 1 year of experience. (1,000+ employees)
I’ve been offered a job as an Admin Asst to the Chief of Police. (Less than 100 employees)
I’m a little nervous about the work culture because I’ve met some pretty toxic cops in the past but this group seems awesome! They’re asking me to do a credit check, background check, and I did my fingerprints with them today. -Is that a normal thing to ask? Also, any tips on making this type of transition?

I added a well recognized litigator in my area at a top firm on LinkedIn... reason being is that I’m a first year in litigation and hope to accomplish at least half the things he has in my career. So it’s interesting to see his takes on things when he engages on a post.

I’m tempted to send him a personal message, not for a job or anything, but honestly just to ask “how he did it” and what advice he might give.

Is there any harm in this? Don’t wanna be annoying.

How long to argue MSJ? Opposing counsel wants to request a half day which seems insane to me. Cross MSJs. I told him no matter how complicated these motions are judge is not going to want to listen to us for more than maybe an hour—even that seems too long.

Connected with somebody but never got another message again: silence means no, right? Moving on.

My lease is up September, 2023. I know that’s a bit away, but I’ll definitely be moving out from my current apartment and I’m wondering if I should be considering buying a co-op or continue renting. I have the money for a down payment, but wondering if it may be better to rent for a little while longer and save for an actual house

Have the opportunity to join a small but growing team at a startup and very excited about it. I would be leaving my exempt position for a non-exempt position but there is 30% pay increase… any thoughts?

Status show 'offer in progress' even after getting the offer. What does his mean. Anyone else seeing same status after offer?

How do we make room for ourselves to heal and center ourselves while having to keep up at work none stop?

Have you ever compare yourself to another peer on a team and also feel you are being compared to by the project boss? How to feel confident?

Who else is questioning their life today?

How did you all find a therapist? It feels so overwhelming having so many options across the US (virtual) that I don’t even know where to start

Dealing with post partum dep/anx. On my 5th day of Zoloft 50mg for the first time and the days are still really really hard. Is it the side effects? How long before I should feel somewhat better/normal? Really struggling today. Any insight into your experience would mean a lot.

I'm really struggling with depression as my husband of 7 years asked for a divorce a few weeks ago. We are still sleeping in the same bed and living together but aren't really talking or anything else. He moves out the end if this month and I move back woth my parents the end if November. I feel so overwhelmed and hurt.

Sometimes it feels like I can't tell dreams vs memories apart bc my dreams are so vividly realistic but my life memories are fading/slipping due to suppression (not talking about them, not reliving them) and mostly since becoming anti-social after some PTSD events and growing up hyper independent. Most of the time I question if something I "remember" happened in real life, or if it was something from a dream.

Has anyone else experienced this? Do I need help? How do I ask for help? Who to ask?

Hey folks. I know a lot of people want to post the suicide hotline and tell folks to get therapy and all of that, but if you have ever experienced suicidal ideation, my number one tip as someone who

Yesterday was a good day. I was really impressed with myself. I woke up at 5, practiced dance lessons, did two water colors, made breakfast and tea, got to work by 10, put in 8-10 hours of solid work and then came home. It’s been ages since I painted or danced.
However today, I slept till 7:00, did not work out or have food. Still got to work by 10 and did 8 solid hours of work.
Some days are good and some are just okay. And that is okay. Trying to build on my good days and we all can. :)

Anyone gets migraine as soon as you start to work?

So my only friend was diagnosed with lymphoma so severe it has been stopping her heart now and again and I am jealous af. Everyone who wants to live is dying and then there's me. Healthy af physiclly

Today my partner told me it's either I work on this engagement or else. You know what I quit. My visa only has one year left so it's going to be hard to find a job but I don't care. I'm just so done burning my life for a project that kills my daily life

What has your experience been with the Calm app? Would you recommend the paid subscription? Plan to use it for managing anxiety but looks like they also cover relationships, self esteem etc.

On the verge of quitting because I’m stressed, depressed, feel like I’m constantly frustrated with everyone and everything. Don’t have an alternative lined up ...but also less and less able to cope

I’ve been a little depressed after being laid off from my job I only had for 6 months. I took this job to be closer to home with the intention of this being a long term job for me. I’m so lost. I’ve been spending hours and hours trying to update my resume, but at the same time, I’ve been thinking if I want to stay on the same career path because it's what I know and have been doing for 15-plus years. I worry I will fall into a job I don't want.

I am struggling with anxiety really badly but don’t wanna take meds. Anyone else have fixed their anxiety naturally without any meds?

I feel like I am drowning. My mom’s first year anniversary is coming up, things are not good at home with my dad and sister, I am about to breakup with my SO, and deeply unsatisfied with my job.

I feel like a lot of us are going to come out of this this with either ptsd or other health issues. (Saying this as someone who has ptsd). This is bad and getting worse.