Mother’s day gift suggestions for a mid-fifty mother. Upto $1k

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A beautiful simple piece of jewelry - studs, pearls, juice plain diamond on a necklace

Weekend spa getaway (if she’s vaccinated/feels comfortable)

If she likes planting - a lettuce grow hydroponic vertical garden ($800+ depending on size). Also some rare plants (white monstera) start at hundreds of dollars

A beautiful ornate vase, mirror, or painting (if you know her style)

A theragun or Occulus headset

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