Moving in with someone after 2 months of dating wish me luck!

List of info people are interested in:
Age, sex, location, ethnicity, religion, height, insta handle (if shameless plug), one fun fact about yourself, what you’re looking for

NYC daters: How did you know that they were the one?

or…

How did you know that they were NOT the one?

Any 40F interested in connecting?

What is the best way to attract a new mate? I got out of a 7 year relationship (he was cheating on me for half of it) and I’m so confused on where to even start. I have a therapist and working on my trust issues - but I have self confidence issues. I’ve been burned for being ‘unattractive’. But I’ve seen girls that are objectively more unattractive than me have mates. So it must be a confidence issue? Those girls seem to glow while I am so sad. Or it’s the guys I go on dates with?

Anyone have any recommendations on how to meet someone they really click with? I'm 27 and male. I find on the dating app route I get plenty of dates, but struggle to meet someone I actually click with / could see myself being with long term. Either that or I find out there is some major deal breaker after a few weeks.

Would appreciate any advice fishes have :)

Turning networking on in this bowl indicates you are single and open to DMs

Date went well until she got so drunk she ended up blacking out/throwing up - clear she’s going through some heavy emotional stuff at home. She’s now saying I deserve better than her, I should run a mile, and that she clearly isn’t in the right mindset for dating. I’ve said that’s fine, but I still like her (maybe foolishly). How to play it? Should I come back soon?

24 F here ☺️

Has anyone been to the Zoolights at the Zoo? I have never been, I'm relatively new to the area. Is this a good event for a casual walk around date night?

Describe the weirdest / wildest person you've ever dated

Could you seriously date someone who isn't on the same financial level as you?

So they tell that you’re lookin for a girl like me

Anyone in San Diego 😊?

33 female, single, no kids.

Does anyone know of a good dating app? I have tried using Hinge, which I thought is designed for people to date and not to hook-up. However, everyone I chatted with is asking for pics like they would on Grindr…is that just our culture?

Hello all just need some likes to be able to dm. Hook me up if you could please 😃

I was wondering how do other trans and non binary people find their boo.. the dating apps seem unreal and in person events are not that frequent.. DM me

I am not a fan of that halftime show. Really... ass slapping? So tired of over sexualized crap.

What makes a dating app profile catch your eye?

I had higher expectations for this bowl. You’re in your 30’s/40’s and looking for a hookup? 😒

Sup single consultants!

Any interesting things to do with the family near Aubrey?

Advice on moving (like really moving everything...) to NYC now? Ship everything? How to get from airport to Manhattan etc?

Persistent systems vs citius tech

Hello everyone, I’m the new bowl leader (thanks Karinna!) who will be admitting and posting as the bowl grows. If you have any questions or concerns, please DM me. Or if you have something you’d like to post anonymously, I’m good for that too. Bear with me as I’ll be posting here frequently to get the bowl active on its own. Thanks and welcome!

Hello fishes ,
Can someone help me in choosing one among the below offers .

Wipro - 30lpa
Benz - 30lpa
Dxc - 30lpa

Tech stack - Data Engineer (Talend and Azure)
Exp-8

What would you feel is a fair salary for a mid-level data scientist in a major Midwest metro area.
Chicago, Madison, Minneapolis, etc.
Mid-level with 3-5 years experience in data-related roles.
Masters degree required.
Marketing data company.
Works independently across multiple very lean teams.
Thanks!

What is work life balance at Slalom Consulting? Is it client dependent? Is a lot of weekend work required?

Has anyone used Sidley Austin for H1b transfer before? Are they pretty good or all immigration attorneys simply suck?

Hi All,

Please help me in which company I should join in terms of job security, WLB and onsite opportunities. I have 8+ YOE in testing

Brillio : 27
Capco: 24 +1 joining bonus
Wunderman thompson commerce: 25.5
Verifone: 25.

TIA.

Hi all ,

Does anyone have any experience working as an SDR at zoominfo (UK based) but keen to hear from anyone in the US too .

I have a potential offer on the table but I've heard pretty bad things ....


Thanks all!

Please I need referral for HSBC, BCG or McKinsey. I have 3 years experience in Corporate Finance and Advisory.

Hello folks, how's the data engineering market in alberta, Canada. What's should be the salary expectation for 6 years of experienced data engineer?

Your insights are highly appreciable....
Have a nice day.

Ive got 3 years of data privacy law in addition to corporate practice. I want to transition to exclusively privacy law, ideally in biglaw. Anyone in this type of position willing to chat with me?

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Is it possible to get a remote job in the US but be based in Canada? Not sure of the legalities but the salaries here are much lower than those in the US...

How to become a CTO from a Software Engineer? And how much years of experience would it take?

Hello, I'm hearing product management is the space to be if you want to see a considerable bump in pay. What is the path forward to reach that role? I have experience as a project manager, scrum master, and BA and I was hoping these combined could land me a product manager role, but it seems like companies require extensive prior experience as a product manager already - so, what is the best way to get my foot into that role?

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If a guy stopped responding to me mid convo, would it be okay to maybe message him again in a month or so? Don’t want to double message as I don’t know him that well

How to get over a girl who’s still always on your mind? Dated for 4 years, broke up beginning of July. One of those situations where you really think it’s “the one”. She has seemingly moved on pretty easily, which just hurts even more. I keep replaying scenarios in my head and wonder if there’s a chance at a future with us together again. 😔

My gf has a particular gift. To always choose the better dish when we're out. So we decided to choose for each other. And, not surprising, the dish i chose for her was still better. Should we break up?

Girl I was seeing 6 months ago went suddenly cold and blocked me off all socials saying she wasn’t ready etc. Now she’s tried to follow me on insta out of the blue. It hurt at the time and so has opened a bit of a wound. A bit confused as to what she might want?

What is the best way to attract a new mate? I got out of a 7 year relationship (he was cheating on me for half of it) and I’m so confused on where to even start. I have a therapist and working on my trust issues - but I have self confidence issues. I’ve been burned for being ‘unattractive’. But I’ve seen girls that are objectively more unattractive than me have mates. So it must be a confidence issue? Those girls seem to glow while I am so sad. Or it’s the guys I go on dates with?

What duration of break is perfect for a couple to figure out if they want to break up or move forward with the relationship? Me and my boyfriend, we fight a lot over petty stuffs and have disagreements over every little things. So, we decided to take a break to decide what’s best for us.

When do you and your SO start telling each other your income?

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We are not married or living together.

He knows how much I make because I told him after my promotion. He is the entrepreneur type with a passive income gig.

His business has been very slow since covid but he just seem to be chillin at home. He never tells me if he is doing financially okay so when I asked. He got offended and asked me to drop the topic because he is doing okay.

F here. I’ve had trouble in relationships because idk how to fight healthily. I’ve been going to therapy for it but I’m struggling atm because my boyfriend who I love so much, I’ve brought to his breaking point with my anxiety fueled approach. I don’t blame him. A lot of this stems from watching my parents & their toxic fights. I want to change not only for myself but for him, because I believe he is worth changing for. But has anyone ever gone through this & made it out better?

Just found out my boyfriend of 3 months (talking stage was about 6 months before making it official) slept with his ex a couple times while we were talking. After we agreed to be exclusive. Without protection. I’m so crushed 😞

Any gift ideas for a new partner’s mother’s bday gift?

Date went well until she got so drunk she ended up blacking out/throwing up - clear she’s going through some heavy emotional stuff at home. She’s now saying I deserve better than her, I should run a mile, and that she clearly isn’t in the right mindset for dating. I’ve said that’s fine, but I still like her (maybe foolishly). How to play it? Should I come back soon?

Why people get married if the chance of long lasting happiness is so low?

Gift ideas for a SO? Looking for ideas to give to a guy as a token of appreciation. $50ish? Im seeing many girls turn to PS5 but I'm looking for something more personal

My family mistreated me when I was younger, and now that I don’t live at home, they don’t call or bother to look for me, because frankly, I think they have a hard time admitting what happened - and will never apologize to me either. If I don’t call, or occasionally go see them during the holidays, we would never talk. Some of them are growing old (health-wise), and I’m scared this entire situation is just irreparable. Has anyone ever gone through anything similar? Any advice or thoughts?

Turns out, all of my relationship troubles magically disappeared when both of us started working today. No relationship can stand being around one another 24/7. 🤨🤣

Moving in together?
I am 28m and my GF is a couple years younger. Her lease is up around the time of our 2yr anniversary (in a few months) she wants to move in with me when her lease ends, but I am not ready. Does me not being ready mean anything? Or do y’all feel like it is okay to wait longer to move in together??

Small misunderstandings keep happening between bf of 2 months and I. Any advice?

I (M25) have been together with my gf (F22) for 18 months - about 6 months we started to get in the habit of not resolving after fights. At this point, I know I like her but also am aware that she is probably not the one (unless we both change a lot). I am not sure what to do? How to weigh out the decision?