My 5 year anniversary is 2 weeks after my due date (although baby could be early). Any ideas on how to celebrate this milestone given I’ll still be recovering and in the crazy first weeks?

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Splurge on a night nanny and give both of you a full night of sleep?

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Order dinner for delivery, have someone else clean the house, try to sleep when baby sleeps so you’re not too tired to talk to an adult in the evening. Otherwise, just exchange cards and postpone your date night for like 2 months out when you will be feeling better and maybe able to go out to dinner.

Order in dinner and have an adult conversation ... do a mini moon when the baby is a little older :)

Is this your first? Because due dates are estimates and people don’t seem to understand that. You could well be delivering on your anniversary... maybe just try for that! 😂

This is my 2nd. Because of my age, they won’t let me go past my due date (they will induce me). Hoping for 2 weeks early though! The weather is brutal right now!

Gotcha - kind of had a feeling ... this is why everyone say 2nd child is just “whatever” haha. But seriously, props to you for prioritizing the connection between you and husband.

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My baby was born on our anniversary. We didn’t celebrate our anniversary the year he was born and since then it’s pretty much just “his” day. I am totally fine with it - we had many years just celebrating us and can make any other day about us.

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