My bf and I call each other everytime we have free time. However lately he seems disinterested in phone time. He never initiates calls anymore and he tells me he wants to hang up in the middle of the day and not right before bedtime. We live 4 hour apart. And agreed this is like living together from a distance, because I put him on the house speakers. What can I do to keep him engaged?

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Wasn’t this same post posted a few days ago

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It was with BF instead of GF

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This is like the same post but still “wants to hang up in the middle of the day” is so normal I would never talk to anyone all day

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Maybe actually give him a little space? This sounds like a lot

I wonder if this is a bot— same exact post as a few days ago but switched genders

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